有一天，男孩在外头玩耍的时候，又遇到了白兔。蹦蹦跳跳，看来伤口复原了。
其实，男孩每天都会遇到白兔。没谈话，没打招呼。只是，擦肩而过，但，男孩还是会留意白兔。可能是习惯吧。
男孩今天看到蹦蹦跳跳的白兔，有带着悲伤，寂寞的表情。男孩停下脚步，上前问候。
男孩与白兔有说有笑。谈了一会儿，男孩觉得白兔没大碍，表示要到草原去。但，白兔问了问男孩一个问题，为什么停下脚步。
男孩看着白兔回，因为想帮，所以帮。因为想停下脚步，所以停下脚步。有些事不需要太多理由，也不用想太多。已经过去的事就是过去。重要的是，要幸福喔！
白兔看着男孩，没回应。男孩也开始朝着夕阳的方向骑去。
Wednesday, July 26, 2006
Food for thoughts
Quoted from a friend's Blog.
"懂得悲伤的人才是活着的。"
当人不懂得悲伤，那算是个死人吗？
那我不也是个活死人了吗？
"某人说 ：与其鲁莽地与错的人在一起，何不孤独地等待对的人的出现？"
说得好！但，我的对的人几时才会出现呢？
"懂得悲伤的人才是活着的。"
当人不懂得悲伤，那算是个死人吗？
那我不也是个活死人了吗？
"某人说 ：与其鲁莽地与错的人在一起，何不孤独地等待对的人的出现？"
说得好！但，我的对的人几时才会出现呢？
Sunday, July 23, 2006
Female Pillion Needed
Looking for female pillion. Age > 21.
Requirements:
1. Cannot scared of riding
2. Must be female
Gd to have:
1. Love KTV
2. Love to eat
3. Reads japanese commics
4. Knows how to play Mahjong. Even better if know how to always win.
5. Watch Korean movie or Boring Small Production
Benefits:
1. Transporation provided
2. Personal shopping bell boy service provided
3. Personal fashion advisor service provided
4. Personal shopping kaki provided
5. Available personal cushion during graveyard shift
6. Personal IT support service provided
Interested parties please sign up at the comments below and our HR representative will call you personally to schedule for an interview.
Requirements:
1. Cannot scared of riding
2. Must be female
Gd to have:
1. Love KTV
2. Love to eat
3. Reads japanese commics
4. Knows how to play Mahjong. Even better if know how to always win.
5. Watch Korean movie or Boring Small Production
Benefits:
1. Transporation provided
2. Personal shopping bell boy service provided
3. Personal fashion advisor service provided
4. Personal shopping kaki provided
5. Available personal cushion during graveyard shift
6. Personal IT support service provided
Interested parties please sign up at the comments below and our HR representative will call you personally to schedule for an interview.
Saturday, July 22, 2006
365天性格生日书★每天都分析的很详细哦
365天性格生日书★每天都分析的很详细哦
性格分析
这一天出生的人，不管个性是外放或内敛，都将人生视为一场恋爱游戏，或是一场冒险。他们总是过着戏剧般的生活，而且无法抗拒一趟惊险的旅程、一段出轨的感情或是一场神秘恋情的诱惑。
这天出生的浪漫派当中比较外放的人，从不会隐藏他们奔放狂野的感情，所以喜爱冒险的特质是显而易见的。至于他们当中比较内敛的浪漫派则发现，不为人知的秘密爱恋才是天底下最令人兴奋的事。他们经常是害羞而又安静的那一型，态度多是一副“没人了解我的感受”的样子。
这一天出生的人，人生充满着激情和丰富的经验，当他们深陷热恋之中或追寻一段冒险之旅时，会变得与现实世界没什么瓜葛的样子。但是，当他们并不处在这类情境中时，却又再实际不过。所以不论是男是女，这天出生的人都会是最好的家庭主妇或主夫。当他们觉得亢奋时，会紧张得有如虔诚的教徒，或像是吸食了毒品一样。不幸的是，沮丧时也同样会受到很大的影响，所以他们常为焦虑和沮丧所苦。在接受过几次的失败经验后，他们可能会开始渐趋于实际，动机和行动也变得比较隐晦不明而与情人疏离。
爱情运
6月22日出生的人的特征是比他人都有着丰富的感受性。与生俱来的重感情，能明白的把感情表现出来，并去追求无限的爱和安心。
同时，不爱受伤害的心境很强，所以很难突破心防，因此信赖别人须花很多的时间才能做到。也因此往往晚婚，本来就很顾家的性格，造成单身时代经常有焦躁的心境。
对于6月22日出生人来说，家庭和家族才是自己存在的理由，所以有时在结婚后还是无法离开双亲。然而自已也会成为一位坚强，而且重感情的父母。
金钱运
6月22日出生的人，为了要安定感情，往往有爱好物品或金钱的情形。巨蟹座的人尤其喜爱古董，要收集很多，他才放心。
又很害怕没有钱，熟悉经济、懂得节约，对于聚集钱财有各式各样的好机会。事实上他很少有为钱而担忧的时侯，虽然有时候会因无结婚或继承，而成为财主，但是很多时候都是自己攒取财富。
事业运
如果承办房屋或者土地等不动产方面的工作，一定很幸运；如果学会看透他人心事的秘诀，就能当上最好的推销员。感情丰富、忍耐力强，所以能在各式各样的职业上有所成就。
这一天出生的人有内在的艺术细胞。靠容易理解别人的心情或感情的能力所赐，能专心用富有深重感情的洞察力去从事创作。
健康运
6月22日出生的人必须特别照顾皮肤，他们的脸上、半身特别容易长疹子。过敏是这些人的通病。
这一天出生的人多半有敏感的消化系统，而且他们总是不智地去改变饮食习惯。由于非常挑食，所以喜欢或厌恶的食物可能会一日三变，因此在一般正常情况下，最好让他们每日自己准备食物。如果能做一些和缓的运动，例如走路或游泳，对健康会比较好。6月22日出生的巨蟹座，比较容易罹患支气管炎和其它肺部方面的疾病，所以可能有痰多的毛病。
幸运数字
6月22日出生的人受到数字4(2+2=4)与天王星的影响。天王星代表的通常是反复无常而又极具爆炸性的特质。
受到数字4影响的人大都是个人主义者，因为他们通常不会吝于对小事发表他们的大观点，因此很容易引起别人的反感，甚至树立不少敌人──而且是暗箭伤人的那种。6月22日出生的人经常对自己或是与情绪有关的事感兴趣(受到巨蟹座的主宰行星月亮的加强影响)。既然22是一个双倍数字，再加上唯一能加倍后变成22的数字11，在任何月份的11日或是22日出生的人都会发展出一种对双胞胎、巧合、对称和其它有双倍特质的事物着迷不已的倾向。
性格分析
这一天出生的人，不管个性是外放或内敛，都将人生视为一场恋爱游戏，或是一场冒险。他们总是过着戏剧般的生活，而且无法抗拒一趟惊险的旅程、一段出轨的感情或是一场神秘恋情的诱惑。
这天出生的浪漫派当中比较外放的人，从不会隐藏他们奔放狂野的感情，所以喜爱冒险的特质是显而易见的。至于他们当中比较内敛的浪漫派则发现，不为人知的秘密爱恋才是天底下最令人兴奋的事。他们经常是害羞而又安静的那一型，态度多是一副“没人了解我的感受”的样子。
这一天出生的人，人生充满着激情和丰富的经验，当他们深陷热恋之中或追寻一段冒险之旅时，会变得与现实世界没什么瓜葛的样子。但是，当他们并不处在这类情境中时，却又再实际不过。所以不论是男是女，这天出生的人都会是最好的家庭主妇或主夫。当他们觉得亢奋时，会紧张得有如虔诚的教徒，或像是吸食了毒品一样。不幸的是，沮丧时也同样会受到很大的影响，所以他们常为焦虑和沮丧所苦。在接受过几次的失败经验后，他们可能会开始渐趋于实际，动机和行动也变得比较隐晦不明而与情人疏离。
爱情运
6月22日出生的人的特征是比他人都有着丰富的感受性。与生俱来的重感情，能明白的把感情表现出来，并去追求无限的爱和安心。
同时，不爱受伤害的心境很强，所以很难突破心防，因此信赖别人须花很多的时间才能做到。也因此往往晚婚，本来就很顾家的性格，造成单身时代经常有焦躁的心境。
对于6月22日出生人来说，家庭和家族才是自己存在的理由，所以有时在结婚后还是无法离开双亲。然而自已也会成为一位坚强，而且重感情的父母。
金钱运
6月22日出生的人，为了要安定感情，往往有爱好物品或金钱的情形。巨蟹座的人尤其喜爱古董，要收集很多，他才放心。
又很害怕没有钱，熟悉经济、懂得节约，对于聚集钱财有各式各样的好机会。事实上他很少有为钱而担忧的时侯，虽然有时候会因无结婚或继承，而成为财主，但是很多时候都是自己攒取财富。
事业运
如果承办房屋或者土地等不动产方面的工作，一定很幸运；如果学会看透他人心事的秘诀，就能当上最好的推销员。感情丰富、忍耐力强，所以能在各式各样的职业上有所成就。
这一天出生的人有内在的艺术细胞。靠容易理解别人的心情或感情的能力所赐，能专心用富有深重感情的洞察力去从事创作。
健康运
6月22日出生的人必须特别照顾皮肤，他们的脸上、半身特别容易长疹子。过敏是这些人的通病。
这一天出生的人多半有敏感的消化系统，而且他们总是不智地去改变饮食习惯。由于非常挑食，所以喜欢或厌恶的食物可能会一日三变，因此在一般正常情况下，最好让他们每日自己准备食物。如果能做一些和缓的运动，例如走路或游泳，对健康会比较好。6月22日出生的巨蟹座，比较容易罹患支气管炎和其它肺部方面的疾病，所以可能有痰多的毛病。
幸运数字
6月22日出生的人受到数字4(2+2=4)与天王星的影响。天王星代表的通常是反复无常而又极具爆炸性的特质。
受到数字4影响的人大都是个人主义者，因为他们通常不会吝于对小事发表他们的大观点，因此很容易引起别人的反感，甚至树立不少敌人──而且是暗箭伤人的那种。6月22日出生的人经常对自己或是与情绪有关的事感兴趣(受到巨蟹座的主宰行星月亮的加强影响)。既然22是一个双倍数字，再加上唯一能加倍后变成22的数字11，在任何月份的11日或是22日出生的人都会发展出一种对双胞胎、巧合、对称和其它有双倍特质的事物着迷不已的倾向。
Thursday, July 13, 2006
Another meaningful email: A Slice of Life [Love and Personal Power]
When you're in a romantic relationship, do you give away too much of yourself?
This may seem like a strange question; after all, isn't love supposed to be that way? The giving of oneself to one's partner?
Well, the problem with always placing someone else's needs and ideas above your own is that it's not sustainable.
When you fell in love with your partner, you did so because you found some aspects of him or her attractive. This attractiveness forms the core of your partner's personal power. It is what makes them likeable to others as well. You too have your own personal power. But when we love someone, it's natural for us to want to give him or her some of this power. We might consistently give in, for example, always admit fault in arguments, constantly accommodate their wishes, in turn curtailing our own needs and feelings. The problem begins when you suppress yourself too much and too often in order to inflate your partner. The relationship then becomes lop-sided - your partner begins to rely on your submission, praises and assistance, and you start to think that this is what makes you valuable, what makes you loveable.
But do you notice that the more you give in to someone, the more they tend to take advantage of you? Yes your partner may love you but they're human too and can be "taught" over time to perceive your love as this consistent yielding to their desires. Your partner can begin to believe that he or she is really more important than you - more attractive, more powerful, more well-liked; while you're turning weak, timid, disrespectful of yourself and basking in the rays of their light.
The thing is, your partner is looking for an equal, someone who can play off them, challenge them, learn with them, grow with them; not more admirers for their "fanclub". To build a meaningful relationship, you must have a healthy self-image. If you have a low assessment of yourself, over time your partner can come to have a low opinion of you too.
So remember, a healthy sustainable relationship can only be developed if both parties have a high sense of self-worth and personal powers are maintained at equitable levels. You're partners, and you're not an unworthy creature admiring someone far better than you.
This may seem like a strange question; after all, isn't love supposed to be that way? The giving of oneself to one's partner?
Well, the problem with always placing someone else's needs and ideas above your own is that it's not sustainable.
When you fell in love with your partner, you did so because you found some aspects of him or her attractive. This attractiveness forms the core of your partner's personal power. It is what makes them likeable to others as well. You too have your own personal power. But when we love someone, it's natural for us to want to give him or her some of this power. We might consistently give in, for example, always admit fault in arguments, constantly accommodate their wishes, in turn curtailing our own needs and feelings. The problem begins when you suppress yourself too much and too often in order to inflate your partner. The relationship then becomes lop-sided - your partner begins to rely on your submission, praises and assistance, and you start to think that this is what makes you valuable, what makes you loveable.
But do you notice that the more you give in to someone, the more they tend to take advantage of you? Yes your partner may love you but they're human too and can be "taught" over time to perceive your love as this consistent yielding to their desires. Your partner can begin to believe that he or she is really more important than you - more attractive, more powerful, more well-liked; while you're turning weak, timid, disrespectful of yourself and basking in the rays of their light.
The thing is, your partner is looking for an equal, someone who can play off them, challenge them, learn with them, grow with them; not more admirers for their "fanclub". To build a meaningful relationship, you must have a healthy self-image. If you have a low assessment of yourself, over time your partner can come to have a low opinion of you too.
So remember, a healthy sustainable relationship can only be developed if both parties have a high sense of self-worth and personal powers are maintained at equitable levels. You're partners, and you're not an unworthy creature admiring someone far better than you.
A meaningful email found: PARTNERS AND MARRIAGE
PARTNERS AND MARRIAGE
By Eduardo Jose E. Calasanz
I have never met a man who didn't want to be loved . But I have seldom met a man who didn't fear marriage . Something about the closure seems constricting , not enabling. Marriage seems easier to understand for what it cuts out of our lives than for what it makes possible within our lives.
When I was younger this fear immobilized me. I did not want to make a mistake. I saw my friends get married for reasons of social acceptability, or sexual fever, or just because they thought it was the logical thing to do. Then I watched, as they and their partners became embittered and petty in their dealings with each other. I looked at older couples and saw, at best, mutual toleration of each other. I imagined a lifetime of loveless nights and bickering and could not imagine subjecting myself or someone else to such a fate.
And yet, on rare occasions, I would see old couples who somehow seemed to glow in each other's presence . They seemed really in love, not just dependent upon each other and tolerant of each other's foibles. It was an astounding sight, and it seemed impossible. How, I asked myself, can they have survived so many years of sameness, so much irritation at the other's habits? What keeps love
alive in them, when most of us seem unable to even stay together, much less love each other?
The central secret seems to be in choosing well. There is something to the claim of fundamental compatibility . Good people can create a bad relationship , even though they both dearly want the relationship to succeed. It is important to find someone with whom you can create a good relationship from the outset. Unfortunately, it is hard to see clearly in the early stages.
Sexual hunger draws you to each other and colors the way you see yourselves together. It blinds you to the thousands of little things by which relationships eventually survive or fail. You need to find a way to see beyond this initial overwhelming sexual fascination. Some people choose to involve themselves sexually and ride out the most heated period of sexual attraction in order to see what is on the other side.
This can work, but it can also leave a trail of wounded hearts. Others deny the sexual side altogether in an attempt to get to know each other apart from their sexuality. But they cannot see clearly, because the presence of unfulfilled sexual desire looms so large that it keeps them from having any normal perception of what life would be like together.
The truly lucky people are the ones who manage to become long-time friends before they realize they are attracted to each other. They get to know each other's laughs, passions, sadness, and fears. They see each other at their worst and at their best. They share time together before they get swept into the entangling intimacy of their sexuality.
This is the ideal, but not often possible. If you fall under the spell of your sexual attraction immediately, you need to look beyond it for other keys to compatibility. One of these is laughter. Laughter tells you how much you will enjoy each other's company over the long term.
If your laughter together is good and healthy, and not at the expense of others, then you have a healthy relationship to the world. Laughter is the child of surprise. If you can make each other laugh , you can always surprise each other. And if you can always surprise each other, you can always keep the world around you new.
Beware of a relationship in which there is no laughter . Even the most intimate relationships based only on seriousness have a tendency to turn sour. Over time, sharing a common serious viewpoint on the world tends to tour n you against those who do not share the same viewpoint, and your relationship can become based on being critical together.
After laughter, look for a partner who deals with the world in a way you respect. When two people first get together, they tend to see their relationship as existing only in the space between the two of them. They find each other endlessly fascinating, and the overwhelming power of the emotions they are sharing obscures the outside world. As the relationship ages and grows, the outside world becomes important again. If your partner treats people or circumstances in a way you can't accept, you will inevitably come to grief. Look at the way she cares for others and deals with the daily affairs of life. If that makes you love her more, your love will grow. If it does not, be careful. If you do not respect the way you each deal with the world around you, eventually the two of you will not respect each other.
Look also at how your partner confronts the mysteries of life. We live on the cusp of poetry and practicality, and the real life of the heart resides in the poetic. If one of you is deeply affected by the mystery of the unseen in life and relationships, while the other is drawn only to the literal and the practical, you must take care that the distance doesn't become an unbridgeable gap that leaves you each feeling isolated and misunderstood.
There are many other keys, but you must find them by yourself. We all have unchangeable parts of our hearts that we will not betray and private commitments to a vision of life that we will not deny. If you fall in love with someone who cannot nourish those inviolable parts of you, or if you cannot nourish them in her, you will find yourselves growing further apart until you live in separate worlds where you share the business of life, but never touch each other where the heart lives and dreams. From there it is only a small leap to the cataloging of petty hurts and daily failures that leaves so many couples bitter and unsatisfied with their mates.
So choose carefully and well. If you do, you will have chosen a partner with whom you can grow, and then the real miracle of marriage can take place in your hearts. I pick my words carefully when I speak of a miracle. But I think it is not too strong a word. There is a miracle in marriage. It is called transformation. Transformation is one of the most common events of nature. The seed becomes the flower. The cocoon becomes the butterfly. Winter becomes spring and love becomes a child. We never question these, because we see them around us every day. To us they are not miracles, though if we did not know them they would be impossible to believe.
Marriage is a transformation we choose to make. Our love is planted like a seed, and in time it begins to flower. We cannot know the flower that will blossom, but we can be sure that a bloom will come.
If you have chosen carefully and wisely, the bloom will be good. If you have chosen poorly or for the wrong reason, the bloom will be flawed. We are quite willing to accept the reality of negative transformation in a marriage. It was negative transformation that always had me terrified of the bitter marriages that I feared when I was younger.
It never occurred tome to question the dark miracle that transformed love into harshness and bitterness. Yet I was unable to accept the possibility that the first heat of love could be transformed into something positive that was actually deeper and more meaningful than the heat of fresh passion. All I could believe in
was the power of this passion and the fear that when it cooled I would be left with something lesser and bitter.
But there is positive transformation as well. Like negative transformation, it results from a slow accretion of little things. But instead of death by a thousand blows, it is growth by a thousand touches of love. Two histories intermingle. Two separate beings, two separate presence, two separate consciousnesses come together and share a view of life that passes before them. They remain separate, but they also become one. There is an expansion of awareness, not a closure and a constriction, as I had once feared. This is not to say that there is not tension and there are not traps. Tension and traps are part of every choice of life , from celibate to monogamous to having multiple lovers. Each choice contains with in it the lingering doubt that the road not taken somehow more fruitful and exciting, and each becomes dulled to the richness that it alone contains.
But only marriage allows life to deepen and expand and be leavened by the knowledge that two have chosen, against all odds, to become one. Those who live together without marriage can know the pleasure of shared company, but there is a specific gravity in the marriage commitment that deepens that experience into something richer and more complex.
So do not fear marriage, just as you should not rush into it for the wrong reasons. It is an act of faith and it contains within it the power of transformation. If you believe in your heart that you have found someone with whom you are able to grow, if you have sufficient faith that you can resist the endless attraction of the road not taken and the partner not chosen, if you have the strength of heart to embrace the cycles and seasons that your love will experience, then you may be ready to seek the miracle that marriage offers. If not, then wait. The easy grace of a marriage well made is worth your patience. When the time comes, a thousand flowers will bloom...endlessly.
By Eduardo Jose E. Calasanz
I have never met a man who didn't want to be loved . But I have seldom met a man who didn't fear marriage . Something about the closure seems constricting , not enabling. Marriage seems easier to understand for what it cuts out of our lives than for what it makes possible within our lives.
When I was younger this fear immobilized me. I did not want to make a mistake. I saw my friends get married for reasons of social acceptability, or sexual fever, or just because they thought it was the logical thing to do. Then I watched, as they and their partners became embittered and petty in their dealings with each other. I looked at older couples and saw, at best, mutual toleration of each other. I imagined a lifetime of loveless nights and bickering and could not imagine subjecting myself or someone else to such a fate.
And yet, on rare occasions, I would see old couples who somehow seemed to glow in each other's presence . They seemed really in love, not just dependent upon each other and tolerant of each other's foibles. It was an astounding sight, and it seemed impossible. How, I asked myself, can they have survived so many years of sameness, so much irritation at the other's habits? What keeps love
alive in them, when most of us seem unable to even stay together, much less love each other?
The central secret seems to be in choosing well. There is something to the claim of fundamental compatibility . Good people can create a bad relationship , even though they both dearly want the relationship to succeed. It is important to find someone with whom you can create a good relationship from the outset. Unfortunately, it is hard to see clearly in the early stages.
Sexual hunger draws you to each other and colors the way you see yourselves together. It blinds you to the thousands of little things by which relationships eventually survive or fail. You need to find a way to see beyond this initial overwhelming sexual fascination. Some people choose to involve themselves sexually and ride out the most heated period of sexual attraction in order to see what is on the other side.
This can work, but it can also leave a trail of wounded hearts. Others deny the sexual side altogether in an attempt to get to know each other apart from their sexuality. But they cannot see clearly, because the presence of unfulfilled sexual desire looms so large that it keeps them from having any normal perception of what life would be like together.
The truly lucky people are the ones who manage to become long-time friends before they realize they are attracted to each other. They get to know each other's laughs, passions, sadness, and fears. They see each other at their worst and at their best. They share time together before they get swept into the entangling intimacy of their sexuality.
This is the ideal, but not often possible. If you fall under the spell of your sexual attraction immediately, you need to look beyond it for other keys to compatibility. One of these is laughter. Laughter tells you how much you will enjoy each other's company over the long term.
If your laughter together is good and healthy, and not at the expense of others, then you have a healthy relationship to the world. Laughter is the child of surprise. If you can make each other laugh , you can always surprise each other. And if you can always surprise each other, you can always keep the world around you new.
Beware of a relationship in which there is no laughter . Even the most intimate relationships based only on seriousness have a tendency to turn sour. Over time, sharing a common serious viewpoint on the world tends to tour n you against those who do not share the same viewpoint, and your relationship can become based on being critical together.
After laughter, look for a partner who deals with the world in a way you respect. When two people first get together, they tend to see their relationship as existing only in the space between the two of them. They find each other endlessly fascinating, and the overwhelming power of the emotions they are sharing obscures the outside world. As the relationship ages and grows, the outside world becomes important again. If your partner treats people or circumstances in a way you can't accept, you will inevitably come to grief. Look at the way she cares for others and deals with the daily affairs of life. If that makes you love her more, your love will grow. If it does not, be careful. If you do not respect the way you each deal with the world around you, eventually the two of you will not respect each other.
Look also at how your partner confronts the mysteries of life. We live on the cusp of poetry and practicality, and the real life of the heart resides in the poetic. If one of you is deeply affected by the mystery of the unseen in life and relationships, while the other is drawn only to the literal and the practical, you must take care that the distance doesn't become an unbridgeable gap that leaves you each feeling isolated and misunderstood.
There are many other keys, but you must find them by yourself. We all have unchangeable parts of our hearts that we will not betray and private commitments to a vision of life that we will not deny. If you fall in love with someone who cannot nourish those inviolable parts of you, or if you cannot nourish them in her, you will find yourselves growing further apart until you live in separate worlds where you share the business of life, but never touch each other where the heart lives and dreams. From there it is only a small leap to the cataloging of petty hurts and daily failures that leaves so many couples bitter and unsatisfied with their mates.
So choose carefully and well. If you do, you will have chosen a partner with whom you can grow, and then the real miracle of marriage can take place in your hearts. I pick my words carefully when I speak of a miracle. But I think it is not too strong a word. There is a miracle in marriage. It is called transformation. Transformation is one of the most common events of nature. The seed becomes the flower. The cocoon becomes the butterfly. Winter becomes spring and love becomes a child. We never question these, because we see them around us every day. To us they are not miracles, though if we did not know them they would be impossible to believe.
Marriage is a transformation we choose to make. Our love is planted like a seed, and in time it begins to flower. We cannot know the flower that will blossom, but we can be sure that a bloom will come.
If you have chosen carefully and wisely, the bloom will be good. If you have chosen poorly or for the wrong reason, the bloom will be flawed. We are quite willing to accept the reality of negative transformation in a marriage. It was negative transformation that always had me terrified of the bitter marriages that I feared when I was younger.
It never occurred tome to question the dark miracle that transformed love into harshness and bitterness. Yet I was unable to accept the possibility that the first heat of love could be transformed into something positive that was actually deeper and more meaningful than the heat of fresh passion. All I could believe in
was the power of this passion and the fear that when it cooled I would be left with something lesser and bitter.
But there is positive transformation as well. Like negative transformation, it results from a slow accretion of little things. But instead of death by a thousand blows, it is growth by a thousand touches of love. Two histories intermingle. Two separate beings, two separate presence, two separate consciousnesses come together and share a view of life that passes before them. They remain separate, but they also become one. There is an expansion of awareness, not a closure and a constriction, as I had once feared. This is not to say that there is not tension and there are not traps. Tension and traps are part of every choice of life , from celibate to monogamous to having multiple lovers. Each choice contains with in it the lingering doubt that the road not taken somehow more fruitful and exciting, and each becomes dulled to the richness that it alone contains.
But only marriage allows life to deepen and expand and be leavened by the knowledge that two have chosen, against all odds, to become one. Those who live together without marriage can know the pleasure of shared company, but there is a specific gravity in the marriage commitment that deepens that experience into something richer and more complex.
So do not fear marriage, just as you should not rush into it for the wrong reasons. It is an act of faith and it contains within it the power of transformation. If you believe in your heart that you have found someone with whom you are able to grow, if you have sufficient faith that you can resist the endless attraction of the road not taken and the partner not chosen, if you have the strength of heart to embrace the cycles and seasons that your love will experience, then you may be ready to seek the miracle that marriage offers. If not, then wait. The easy grace of a marriage well made is worth your patience. When the time comes, a thousand flowers will bloom...endlessly.
Wednesday, July 12, 2006
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Friday, July 07, 2006
Relationship is not an algorithm
Relationship is not an algorithm. It does not take in fix inputs and does not have a set of predetermine steps of calculating it. Thus it does not produced a predictable set of results.
Therefore, Relationship does not have the property of an algorithm, thus relationship is not an algorithm.
Therefore, Relationship does not have the property of an algorithm, thus relationship is not an algorithm.
Thursday, July 06, 2006
A Baton!!!
Piccola has send mi this and i shall do it although she refuse to do the MEME of "100 things abt me" which i send her.. :P
[1, What is your name?]
I have many online name since my beginning of internet days. poohfa -> falim -> huateduck
[2, What did you eat last night for your supper?]
Din have any.
[3, What is your job?]
High tech coolie. AKA programmer. just changed a new job so still not sure wats install for me. :)
[4, What do you like to do?]
Being member of OSF, i read ppl's blog everyday. I make myself a rss reader which i knoe who has updated their blog without going to their site and it acts as a bookmark for me. Besides tat, my life is mostly online.
Wen im offline, i read books.. chinese novel (those internet publish type).. books on how company starts, like goole story and of course manga. :D
I like KTV a lot but it is really hard to find ppl to go with me nowadays.
[5, What is you favorite type?]
Someone i can talk to, understand wat I do and stand my crap. The rest are gd to have.
[6, What is your special ability?]
Super gd feel with computer and got in built feelers on my head?
[7, Do you have any license or qualification?]
Diploma, BSc, JCP, Class 2B
[8, Do you have concerns?]
Erm.. got.. but ignoring.. ha..
[9. What is your favorite food and dislike food?]
Favorite: Read MEME： 7 sins of food
Dislike: Nothing i can think of.. I eat almost everything...
[10. Say a word for person you love]
Still searching...
[11, Write 5 people you want to give this baton message]
Decided to skip this.. do it if u wan. :D
[1, What is your name?]
I have many online name since my beginning of internet days. poohfa -> falim -> huateduck
[2, What did you eat last night for your supper?]
Din have any.
[3, What is your job?]
High tech coolie. AKA programmer. just changed a new job so still not sure wats install for me. :)
[4, What do you like to do?]
Being member of OSF, i read ppl's blog everyday. I make myself a rss reader which i knoe who has updated their blog without going to their site and it acts as a bookmark for me. Besides tat, my life is mostly online.
Wen im offline, i read books.. chinese novel (those internet publish type).. books on how company starts, like goole story and of course manga. :D
I like KTV a lot but it is really hard to find ppl to go with me nowadays.
[5, What is you favorite type?]
Someone i can talk to, understand wat I do and stand my crap. The rest are gd to have.
[6, What is your special ability?]
Super gd feel with computer and got in built feelers on my head?
[7, Do you have any license or qualification?]
Diploma, BSc, JCP, Class 2B
[8, Do you have concerns?]
Erm.. got.. but ignoring.. ha..
[9. What is your favorite food and dislike food?]
Favorite: Read MEME： 7 sins of food
Dislike: Nothing i can think of.. I eat almost everything...
[10. Say a word for person you love]
Still searching...
[11, Write 5 people you want to give this baton message]
Decided to skip this.. do it if u wan. :D
Wednesday, June 28, 2006
本性解碼
| 整體性格 huateduck先生，崇尚唯美，幽默風趣；自然隨和，行事委婉圓融，懂得享受生活；也有考慮周全，追求完美，寬宏大量的一面。 待人性格 huateduck先生待人：通情達理；有情有義；很容易融入團體；敢於表現也懂謙虛；有領域感但不強烈；坦率但不洩密。 處世性格 huateduck先生處事：能夠積極表達主張；不太固執；從善如流；把握重點兼顧細節；比較理想主義；隨性自在隨機應變。 性格缺點 huateduck先生性格的缺點為：容易妥協立場不夠堅定；有時候拐彎抹角不夠乾脆；偶爾會不喜歡交際應酬。 價值觀 huateduck先生重視的價值觀為：和諧的人際關係；信息的交流；愛情的滋潤；較不擅長：與眾不同；追逐功利；出頭爭先。 愛情性格 huateduck先生在愛情上喜歡講究效率快速進展，講究浪漫氣氛，會吃醋也能包容；較常表現：風度翩翩，聰明機智，溫柔感性，精挑細選,。 金錢性格 huateduck先生的金錢觀：花錢很實在，不會太浪費，喜歡按照計劃用錢；容易把錢用於：崇尚唯美，滿足好奇心，照顧親人，健康養生。 |
Tuesday, June 27, 2006
命
飛黃騰達心靈開運網 Superfate Fortune Management
您是屬於太陽命
◎您是夏天的太陽，閒不下來，受人景仰，普照大地，付出不求回報。熱情有禮，喜歡有智慧，守承諾的人。個性開朗，熱心大方，不會斤斤計較，具有領導特質，不容易接受他人的指揮。◎
根據命理來分析您的個性，潛意識，以及行為模式，您是屬於「太陽命」，因此您天生具有太陽的特質，開朗活潑，熱心大方，不會斤斤計較，也不喜歡搞小團體，對於公理正義非常執著。太陽在天空發光發熱，因此您天生具有老大命，也有領袖命，有表現欲望，但也有犧牲奉獻的精神。太陽不會依自己的喜好來照耀大地，每一個地區都會受到普照，因此您喜歡一視同仁，公私分明，不喜歡有人假公濟私，或搞小團體。太陽每天東昇西降，規律運行，沒有人能改變太陽的軌道，因此您也很有規律性以及耐心，極少半途而廢，而且您也不能接受有人命令您要做什麼，或不做什麼。
此外，您喜歡老實誠信的人，不喜歡自以為是的人，而能讓您佩服的人，多半是有想法，才華與智慧的人，能夠在心靈上讓您提昇的人。您的一生，像太陽一樣，發光發熱，受到眾人矚目。但是陽光有時候也會被烏雲遮蔽，讓您覺得力不從心，有時候陽光炎熱，您善意付出，卻造成別人的壓力，也會讓您很無奈，這些都是您的磨練，只要您經得起外在的考驗，不怨天尤人，進而學習成長，一旦通過考驗，您的成就將不可限量，是領袖級的人物。
◎您本命五行火太旺，心血管機能比較弱，容易有高血壓，高血脂，心跳的問題。◎
根據命理分析，您天生心血管功能比較差，在年輕的時候不會有太大的問題，頂多是長青春痘，口舌生瘡等問題，但是如果您現在不照顧心血管及內分泌系統，隨著年紀越來越大就很容易有高血壓、高血脂、心跳不正常、眼壓過高的問題，甚至容易導致心血管功能異常、內分泌系統異常、腸阻塞脹氣、心律不整、心室肥大、腦溢血、中風、視力病變等問題。因此您不能過度勞累，要維持正常作息，早睡早起，才可以保護先天比較弱的心血管功能。此外，請您要定時檢查心血管功能，更要注意家族裡是否有遺傳性的心血管病史，由於體質偏向心虛血弱，所以盡量不要喝冰的飲料，以免傷了元氣。
此外，所謂「病從口入」，人類大部分的疾病來源都跟飲食有關，根據中醫理論，食物可以分成金、木、水、火、土等五種五行。您似乎應該蠻能接受帶有苦味的食物，例如黑咖啡，巧克力等，應該都符合您的口味。因此，您的細胞中，充滿太多「火」的五行，會導致健康，財運與事業的不圓滿建議您平時最好能飲食均衡，菜色均衡，則陰陽五行調和，生活美滿幸福。
◎但是您八字缺土，胃腸的機能也比較弱，容易有腹脹，腹痛，腹瀉，消化吸收的問題。◎
根據命理分析，您天生胃腸功能比較弱，在年輕的時候不會有太大的問題，等多是腸胃不適、胃酸過多、脹氣、腹瀉、腹痛等問題，但隨著年紀越來越大，胃腸功能需要更多的照顧，不然很容易導致消化系統病變，例如食道炎，胃炎、胃潰瘍、腸炎、大腸息肉、痔瘡、糖尿病等問題。因此您不能過度勞累，要調適壓力，維持正常作息，早睡早起，三餐要定時定量，不能喝酒，少吃刺激性飲食，才可以保護先天比較弱的胃腸功能。
此外，您是屬於容易緊張的類型，生活也比較缺乏規律性，因此三餐常不定時不定量，甚至因長時間工作而來不及用餐，導致胃腸的消化吸收功能受損。如果您想改變這種現象，一定要三餐定時定量，不可暴飲暴食。身體要放輕鬆，精神要保持愉快，不要給自己過多的壓力。只要您每天保持好心情，那您的命運將會有很大的改變，身體健康，財運順利，事業圓滿，家庭幸福。
◎簡易愛情分析，您是屬於柏拉圖式的精神愛情。您的愛情因為雙方生活背景差異大，價值觀也有落差，因此對方並不容易真正瞭解您，其實只要您們多溝通，讓對方瞭解自己真正的想法，相處就不會有問題。◎
您愛情的模式，根據命理分析，您對於心儀的異性，很容易心動，但不容易成功，常常無疾而終，因為要兩個人都一見鍾情確實有點難。一般來說，異性對您的第一印象都不會太深，您是需要經過交往的階段，異性才會發現您的優點與內在美。換句話說，您很容易第一眼就喜歡上一個人，卻不容易經過長時間相處而喜歡上一個人。相反地，您的戀愛對象不容易第一眼就喜歡上您，卻很可能經過長時間相處而喜歡上您。因此，如果您在等待美好的愛情，您可以試著把自己的內在美透過各種方式表現出來，多參加各種活動，多培養各種興趣，多接觸不同人群，如此您會在不知不覺中，讓您的內在美隨時展現，愛情才會更順利。
在人生的旅程中，您的戀愛或結婚對象很有可能是先經由親友介紹或相親而認識，因為您對於愛情比較不太有經驗，也不善於包裝自己、行銷自己，有時更怯於表達自己的感情，碰到喜歡的人也多半停留在欣賞的階段，不容易積極主動的展開追求，更不會死纏爛打，因此不僅錯失許多機會，更在心中產生既期待又怕受傷害的感覺，反而更不容易擦出愛的火花。您若是對象還沒有出現，不要心急，在您身邊確定有人正喜歡著您，只要真心誠意去追求，幸福就在您身邊。
◎簡易財運事業分析，您會賺錢，但不容易守財，也不容易經由儲蓄累積財富。您對於生命比較達觀，不會對自己或家人朋友太小氣。◎
根據命理分析，您會賺錢，但是不容易守財，也就是不容易經由儲蓄累積財富。您對於生命比較達觀，因此不會對自己，也不會對家人或朋友太小氣。在您手頭比較緊的時候，該花的錢您還是會花，不會一毛不拔；在您手頭比較寬裕的時候，您花錢會很大方，不會對自己、家人或朋友小氣，正因為如此，您當然不容易存錢。此外，您很容易因為朋友的介紹而做了某些投資，而且常常虧本。這是因為您的個性交遊廣闊，也認識很多人，所以當朋友來找您投資時，您不容易分辨風險，也不容易拒絕，所以當然很容易虧本。如果以一生的時間來衡量，您今生大部份的財富會被您拿來做自己想做的事情，您會認為您使用過的錢財才是您真正擁有的財富。之後，您不會遺留太多的財富給後代子孫。
您是屬於太陽命
◎您是夏天的太陽，閒不下來，受人景仰，普照大地，付出不求回報。熱情有禮，喜歡有智慧，守承諾的人。個性開朗，熱心大方，不會斤斤計較，具有領導特質，不容易接受他人的指揮。◎
根據命理來分析您的個性，潛意識，以及行為模式，您是屬於「太陽命」，因此您天生具有太陽的特質，開朗活潑，熱心大方，不會斤斤計較，也不喜歡搞小團體，對於公理正義非常執著。太陽在天空發光發熱，因此您天生具有老大命，也有領袖命，有表現欲望，但也有犧牲奉獻的精神。太陽不會依自己的喜好來照耀大地，每一個地區都會受到普照，因此您喜歡一視同仁，公私分明，不喜歡有人假公濟私，或搞小團體。太陽每天東昇西降，規律運行，沒有人能改變太陽的軌道，因此您也很有規律性以及耐心，極少半途而廢，而且您也不能接受有人命令您要做什麼，或不做什麼。
此外，您喜歡老實誠信的人，不喜歡自以為是的人，而能讓您佩服的人，多半是有想法，才華與智慧的人，能夠在心靈上讓您提昇的人。您的一生，像太陽一樣，發光發熱，受到眾人矚目。但是陽光有時候也會被烏雲遮蔽，讓您覺得力不從心，有時候陽光炎熱，您善意付出，卻造成別人的壓力，也會讓您很無奈，這些都是您的磨練，只要您經得起外在的考驗，不怨天尤人，進而學習成長，一旦通過考驗，您的成就將不可限量，是領袖級的人物。
◎您本命五行火太旺，心血管機能比較弱，容易有高血壓，高血脂，心跳的問題。◎
根據命理分析，您天生心血管功能比較差，在年輕的時候不會有太大的問題，頂多是長青春痘，口舌生瘡等問題，但是如果您現在不照顧心血管及內分泌系統，隨著年紀越來越大就很容易有高血壓、高血脂、心跳不正常、眼壓過高的問題，甚至容易導致心血管功能異常、內分泌系統異常、腸阻塞脹氣、心律不整、心室肥大、腦溢血、中風、視力病變等問題。因此您不能過度勞累，要維持正常作息，早睡早起，才可以保護先天比較弱的心血管功能。此外，請您要定時檢查心血管功能，更要注意家族裡是否有遺傳性的心血管病史，由於體質偏向心虛血弱，所以盡量不要喝冰的飲料，以免傷了元氣。
此外，所謂「病從口入」，人類大部分的疾病來源都跟飲食有關，根據中醫理論，食物可以分成金、木、水、火、土等五種五行。您似乎應該蠻能接受帶有苦味的食物，例如黑咖啡，巧克力等，應該都符合您的口味。因此，您的細胞中，充滿太多「火」的五行，會導致健康，財運與事業的不圓滿建議您平時最好能飲食均衡，菜色均衡，則陰陽五行調和，生活美滿幸福。
◎但是您八字缺土，胃腸的機能也比較弱，容易有腹脹，腹痛，腹瀉，消化吸收的問題。◎
根據命理分析，您天生胃腸功能比較弱，在年輕的時候不會有太大的問題，等多是腸胃不適、胃酸過多、脹氣、腹瀉、腹痛等問題，但隨著年紀越來越大，胃腸功能需要更多的照顧，不然很容易導致消化系統病變，例如食道炎，胃炎、胃潰瘍、腸炎、大腸息肉、痔瘡、糖尿病等問題。因此您不能過度勞累，要調適壓力，維持正常作息，早睡早起，三餐要定時定量，不能喝酒，少吃刺激性飲食，才可以保護先天比較弱的胃腸功能。
此外，您是屬於容易緊張的類型，生活也比較缺乏規律性，因此三餐常不定時不定量，甚至因長時間工作而來不及用餐，導致胃腸的消化吸收功能受損。如果您想改變這種現象，一定要三餐定時定量，不可暴飲暴食。身體要放輕鬆，精神要保持愉快，不要給自己過多的壓力。只要您每天保持好心情，那您的命運將會有很大的改變，身體健康，財運順利，事業圓滿，家庭幸福。
◎簡易愛情分析，您是屬於柏拉圖式的精神愛情。您的愛情因為雙方生活背景差異大，價值觀也有落差，因此對方並不容易真正瞭解您，其實只要您們多溝通，讓對方瞭解自己真正的想法，相處就不會有問題。◎
您愛情的模式，根據命理分析，您對於心儀的異性，很容易心動，但不容易成功，常常無疾而終，因為要兩個人都一見鍾情確實有點難。一般來說，異性對您的第一印象都不會太深，您是需要經過交往的階段，異性才會發現您的優點與內在美。換句話說，您很容易第一眼就喜歡上一個人，卻不容易經過長時間相處而喜歡上一個人。相反地，您的戀愛對象不容易第一眼就喜歡上您，卻很可能經過長時間相處而喜歡上您。因此，如果您在等待美好的愛情，您可以試著把自己的內在美透過各種方式表現出來，多參加各種活動，多培養各種興趣，多接觸不同人群，如此您會在不知不覺中，讓您的內在美隨時展現，愛情才會更順利。
在人生的旅程中，您的戀愛或結婚對象很有可能是先經由親友介紹或相親而認識，因為您對於愛情比較不太有經驗，也不善於包裝自己、行銷自己，有時更怯於表達自己的感情，碰到喜歡的人也多半停留在欣賞的階段，不容易積極主動的展開追求，更不會死纏爛打，因此不僅錯失許多機會，更在心中產生既期待又怕受傷害的感覺，反而更不容易擦出愛的火花。您若是對象還沒有出現，不要心急，在您身邊確定有人正喜歡著您，只要真心誠意去追求，幸福就在您身邊。
◎簡易財運事業分析，您會賺錢，但不容易守財，也不容易經由儲蓄累積財富。您對於生命比較達觀，不會對自己或家人朋友太小氣。◎
根據命理分析，您會賺錢，但是不容易守財，也就是不容易經由儲蓄累積財富。您對於生命比較達觀，因此不會對自己，也不會對家人或朋友太小氣。在您手頭比較緊的時候，該花的錢您還是會花，不會一毛不拔；在您手頭比較寬裕的時候，您花錢會很大方，不會對自己、家人或朋友小氣，正因為如此，您當然不容易存錢。此外，您很容易因為朋友的介紹而做了某些投資，而且常常虧本。這是因為您的個性交遊廣闊，也認識很多人，所以當朋友來找您投資時，您不容易分辨風險，也不容易拒絕，所以當然很容易虧本。如果以一生的時間來衡量，您今生大部份的財富會被您拿來做自己想做的事情，您會認為您使用過的錢財才是您真正擁有的財富。之後，您不會遺留太多的財富給後代子孫。
Thursday, June 22, 2006
又过一年
在二十六年前的今天，有一个婴孩来到了这个人世间。对人类的未来，可能是祸，可能是福，暂时还不知。只知道，这二十六年来，已经有几个人类被他影响到，但还安然无恙。
男孩走的路，一向来都和平常人不一样。他未必特别，只是过的不一样的生活。可能是祸，可能是福，暂时还不知。只知道，这二十六年来，男孩还安然无恙。
这二十六年来，男孩的感情生活，平平淡淡。爱情的幼苗，没几个开花结果。对别人来说，可能是祸，可能是福，暂时还不知。只知道，男孩还抱着希望，希望这一天的到来。
二十六年已过，男孩也成长了不少，身.心.灵.也变化了不少。现在的他，有好，有坏。对男孩来说，可能是祸，可能是福，暂时还不知。男孩只希望，生活过的顺心一点，红颜知己出现早一点，钱赚多一点，身体更健康一点。
今年会更好。生日快乐。
男孩走的路，一向来都和平常人不一样。他未必特别，只是过的不一样的生活。可能是祸，可能是福，暂时还不知。只知道，这二十六年来，男孩还安然无恙。
这二十六年来，男孩的感情生活，平平淡淡。爱情的幼苗，没几个开花结果。对别人来说，可能是祸，可能是福，暂时还不知。只知道，男孩还抱着希望，希望这一天的到来。
二十六年已过，男孩也成长了不少，身.心.灵.也变化了不少。现在的他，有好，有坏。对男孩来说，可能是祸，可能是福，暂时还不知。男孩只希望，生活过的顺心一点，红颜知己出现早一点，钱赚多一点，身体更健康一点。
今年会更好。生日快乐。
Wednesday, June 14, 2006
why you’re still single...
Taken from Cruz Teng's website... It suppose to tell you y you are still single.. hmm...
T?TakenTaasd
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Between four colour combinations, please choose one:
a. Orange + Yellow
b. Red + Yellow
c. Purple + Pink
d. Green + Pink
Orange + Yellow
你過於保護自己讓人覺得太過現實，考量太多現實層面的狀況會讓你太過理智，顯得過於保護自己，一旦覺得不快樂的時候就馬上拒絕對方，這樣的態度自然阻擋了追求者的出現，而且記得要把對舊情人的愛完全放掉，才能重新找到新感情。
Red + Yellow
因為你的強勢把追求者嚇跑了，基本上你太過大男人或大女人主義，具有強烈的掌握慾望，處處想要佔上風，所以你會想要約束對方，但這樣的態度反而會讓人不敢接近。
Purple + Pink
太過被動的等待愛情是你的致命傷，如果想要被人追求就得先轉變生活圈，才有可能會遇到好的對象。選擇這個顏色的人個性會比較保守而且對愛完全理想化，雖然平時可能給人家的感覺是非常開放的，但是她的內在卻非常傳統，一旦談戀愛就做好嫁人的心理準備。
Green + Pink
眼光太高而且愛挑剔別人的你，讓人有距離感不敢靠近你，試著把標準放低一點，追求者自然會出現！
T?TakenTaasd
*********
Between four colour combinations, please choose one:
a. Orange + Yellow
b. Red + Yellow
c. Purple + Pink
d. Green + Pink
Orange + Yellow
你過於保護自己讓人覺得太過現實，考量太多現實層面的狀況會讓你太過理智，顯得過於保護自己，一旦覺得不快樂的時候就馬上拒絕對方，這樣的態度自然阻擋了追求者的出現，而且記得要把對舊情人的愛完全放掉，才能重新找到新感情。
Red + Yellow
因為你的強勢把追求者嚇跑了，基本上你太過大男人或大女人主義，具有強烈的掌握慾望，處處想要佔上風，所以你會想要約束對方，但這樣的態度反而會讓人不敢接近。
Purple + Pink
太過被動的等待愛情是你的致命傷，如果想要被人追求就得先轉變生活圈，才有可能會遇到好的對象。選擇這個顏色的人個性會比較保守而且對愛完全理想化，雖然平時可能給人家的感覺是非常開放的，但是她的內在卻非常傳統，一旦談戀愛就做好嫁人的心理準備。
Green + Pink
眼光太高而且愛挑剔別人的你，讓人有距離感不敢靠近你，試著把標準放低一點，追求者自然會出現！
Tuesday, June 06, 2006
男孩与花园老板
有一天，男孩在外头玩耍的时候，遇到一位花园老板。好客的老板，邀请了男孩到花园玩。
花园里有各种各样的花，漂亮极了。难得有缘，老板决定送男孩一朵花，叫男孩往前走，随意的挑。
花园里的花，有长的，有短的，有美的，有丑的。真是百花齐放。
男孩走着走着，看到一朵花，可是太远了，只好放弃。再走着，男孩看上了一朵普通的花。男孩把花採下来，继续走着。
走久了，男孩和花朵也产生了共鸣，但是，花朵是不属于男孩的，男孩只好把花朵放下。在走着，发现了一朵可爱的花。男孩想把花採起来，可是，花儿有刺，也在悬崖旁，男孩採不了。男孩试了几次，不成功，也只好放弃。
不久，太阳开始下山了。男孩伤心的空着手从花园出来。老板安慰着男孩，别难过，有缘会找到的。男孩点点头，开始朝着夕阳的方向走。
花园里有各种各样的花，漂亮极了。难得有缘，老板决定送男孩一朵花，叫男孩往前走，随意的挑。
花园里的花，有长的，有短的，有美的，有丑的。真是百花齐放。
男孩走着走着，看到一朵花，可是太远了，只好放弃。再走着，男孩看上了一朵普通的花。男孩把花採下来，继续走着。
走久了，男孩和花朵也产生了共鸣，但是，花朵是不属于男孩的，男孩只好把花朵放下。在走着，发现了一朵可爱的花。男孩想把花採起来，可是，花儿有刺，也在悬崖旁，男孩採不了。男孩试了几次，不成功，也只好放弃。
不久，太阳开始下山了。男孩伤心的空着手从花园出来。老板安慰着男孩，别难过，有缘会找到的。男孩点点头，开始朝着夕阳的方向走。
Monday, May 22, 2006
屋漏偏逢连夜雨船迟又遇打头风
everybody... repeat after me..
屋漏偏逢连夜雨船迟又遇打头风
nothing much.. just i finally knoe wat is the full version of this sentence.. :D
屋漏偏逢连夜雨船迟又遇打头风
nothing much.. just i finally knoe wat is the full version of this sentence.. :D
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