Quoted from a friend's Blog.
"懂得悲伤的人才是活着的。"
当人不懂得悲伤，那算是个死人吗？
那我不也是个活死人了吗？
"某人说 ：与其鲁莽地与错的人在一起，何不孤独地等待对的人的出现？"
说得好！但，我的对的人几时才会出现呢？
Wednesday, July 26, 2006
Sunday, July 23, 2006
Female Pillion Needed
Looking for female pillion. Age > 21.
Requirements:
1. Cannot scared of riding
2. Must be female
Gd to have:
1. Love KTV
2. Love to eat
3. Reads japanese commics
4. Knows how to play Mahjong. Even better if know how to always win.
5. Watch Korean movie or Boring Small Production
Benefits:
1. Transporation provided
2. Personal shopping bell boy service provided
3. Personal fashion advisor service provided
4. Personal shopping kaki provided
5. Available personal cushion during graveyard shift
6. Personal IT support service provided
Interested parties please sign up at the comments below and our HR representative will call you personally to schedule for an interview.
Requirements:
1. Cannot scared of riding
2. Must be female
Gd to have:
1. Love KTV
2. Love to eat
3. Reads japanese commics
4. Knows how to play Mahjong. Even better if know how to always win.
5. Watch Korean movie or Boring Small Production
Benefits:
1. Transporation provided
2. Personal shopping bell boy service provided
3. Personal fashion advisor service provided
4. Personal shopping kaki provided
5. Available personal cushion during graveyard shift
6. Personal IT support service provided
Interested parties please sign up at the comments below and our HR representative will call you personally to schedule for an interview.
Saturday, July 22, 2006
365天性格生日书★每天都分析的很详细哦
365天性格生日书★每天都分析的很详细哦
性格分析
这一天出生的人，不管个性是外放或内敛，都将人生视为一场恋爱游戏，或是一场冒险。他们总是过着戏剧般的生活，而且无法抗拒一趟惊险的旅程、一段出轨的感情或是一场神秘恋情的诱惑。
这天出生的浪漫派当中比较外放的人，从不会隐藏他们奔放狂野的感情，所以喜爱冒险的特质是显而易见的。至于他们当中比较内敛的浪漫派则发现，不为人知的秘密爱恋才是天底下最令人兴奋的事。他们经常是害羞而又安静的那一型，态度多是一副“没人了解我的感受”的样子。
这一天出生的人，人生充满着激情和丰富的经验，当他们深陷热恋之中或追寻一段冒险之旅时，会变得与现实世界没什么瓜葛的样子。但是，当他们并不处在这类情境中时，却又再实际不过。所以不论是男是女，这天出生的人都会是最好的家庭主妇或主夫。当他们觉得亢奋时，会紧张得有如虔诚的教徒，或像是吸食了毒品一样。不幸的是，沮丧时也同样会受到很大的影响，所以他们常为焦虑和沮丧所苦。在接受过几次的失败经验后，他们可能会开始渐趋于实际，动机和行动也变得比较隐晦不明而与情人疏离。
爱情运
6月22日出生的人的特征是比他人都有着丰富的感受性。与生俱来的重感情，能明白的把感情表现出来，并去追求无限的爱和安心。
同时，不爱受伤害的心境很强，所以很难突破心防，因此信赖别人须花很多的时间才能做到。也因此往往晚婚，本来就很顾家的性格，造成单身时代经常有焦躁的心境。
对于6月22日出生人来说，家庭和家族才是自己存在的理由，所以有时在结婚后还是无法离开双亲。然而自已也会成为一位坚强，而且重感情的父母。
金钱运
6月22日出生的人，为了要安定感情，往往有爱好物品或金钱的情形。巨蟹座的人尤其喜爱古董，要收集很多，他才放心。
又很害怕没有钱，熟悉经济、懂得节约，对于聚集钱财有各式各样的好机会。事实上他很少有为钱而担忧的时侯，虽然有时候会因无结婚或继承，而成为财主，但是很多时候都是自己攒取财富。
事业运
如果承办房屋或者土地等不动产方面的工作，一定很幸运；如果学会看透他人心事的秘诀，就能当上最好的推销员。感情丰富、忍耐力强，所以能在各式各样的职业上有所成就。
这一天出生的人有内在的艺术细胞。靠容易理解别人的心情或感情的能力所赐，能专心用富有深重感情的洞察力去从事创作。
健康运
6月22日出生的人必须特别照顾皮肤，他们的脸上、半身特别容易长疹子。过敏是这些人的通病。
这一天出生的人多半有敏感的消化系统，而且他们总是不智地去改变饮食习惯。由于非常挑食，所以喜欢或厌恶的食物可能会一日三变，因此在一般正常情况下，最好让他们每日自己准备食物。如果能做一些和缓的运动，例如走路或游泳，对健康会比较好。6月22日出生的巨蟹座，比较容易罹患支气管炎和其它肺部方面的疾病，所以可能有痰多的毛病。
幸运数字
6月22日出生的人受到数字4(2+2=4)与天王星的影响。天王星代表的通常是反复无常而又极具爆炸性的特质。
受到数字4影响的人大都是个人主义者，因为他们通常不会吝于对小事发表他们的大观点，因此很容易引起别人的反感，甚至树立不少敌人──而且是暗箭伤人的那种。6月22日出生的人经常对自己或是与情绪有关的事感兴趣(受到巨蟹座的主宰行星月亮的加强影响)。既然22是一个双倍数字，再加上唯一能加倍后变成22的数字11，在任何月份的11日或是22日出生的人都会发展出一种对双胞胎、巧合、对称和其它有双倍特质的事物着迷不已的倾向。
性格分析
这一天出生的人，不管个性是外放或内敛，都将人生视为一场恋爱游戏，或是一场冒险。他们总是过着戏剧般的生活，而且无法抗拒一趟惊险的旅程、一段出轨的感情或是一场神秘恋情的诱惑。
这天出生的浪漫派当中比较外放的人，从不会隐藏他们奔放狂野的感情，所以喜爱冒险的特质是显而易见的。至于他们当中比较内敛的浪漫派则发现，不为人知的秘密爱恋才是天底下最令人兴奋的事。他们经常是害羞而又安静的那一型，态度多是一副“没人了解我的感受”的样子。
这一天出生的人，人生充满着激情和丰富的经验，当他们深陷热恋之中或追寻一段冒险之旅时，会变得与现实世界没什么瓜葛的样子。但是，当他们并不处在这类情境中时，却又再实际不过。所以不论是男是女，这天出生的人都会是最好的家庭主妇或主夫。当他们觉得亢奋时，会紧张得有如虔诚的教徒，或像是吸食了毒品一样。不幸的是，沮丧时也同样会受到很大的影响，所以他们常为焦虑和沮丧所苦。在接受过几次的失败经验后，他们可能会开始渐趋于实际，动机和行动也变得比较隐晦不明而与情人疏离。
爱情运
6月22日出生的人的特征是比他人都有着丰富的感受性。与生俱来的重感情，能明白的把感情表现出来，并去追求无限的爱和安心。
同时，不爱受伤害的心境很强，所以很难突破心防，因此信赖别人须花很多的时间才能做到。也因此往往晚婚，本来就很顾家的性格，造成单身时代经常有焦躁的心境。
对于6月22日出生人来说，家庭和家族才是自己存在的理由，所以有时在结婚后还是无法离开双亲。然而自已也会成为一位坚强，而且重感情的父母。
金钱运
6月22日出生的人，为了要安定感情，往往有爱好物品或金钱的情形。巨蟹座的人尤其喜爱古董，要收集很多，他才放心。
又很害怕没有钱，熟悉经济、懂得节约，对于聚集钱财有各式各样的好机会。事实上他很少有为钱而担忧的时侯，虽然有时候会因无结婚或继承，而成为财主，但是很多时候都是自己攒取财富。
事业运
如果承办房屋或者土地等不动产方面的工作，一定很幸运；如果学会看透他人心事的秘诀，就能当上最好的推销员。感情丰富、忍耐力强，所以能在各式各样的职业上有所成就。
这一天出生的人有内在的艺术细胞。靠容易理解别人的心情或感情的能力所赐，能专心用富有深重感情的洞察力去从事创作。
健康运
6月22日出生的人必须特别照顾皮肤，他们的脸上、半身特别容易长疹子。过敏是这些人的通病。
这一天出生的人多半有敏感的消化系统，而且他们总是不智地去改变饮食习惯。由于非常挑食，所以喜欢或厌恶的食物可能会一日三变，因此在一般正常情况下，最好让他们每日自己准备食物。如果能做一些和缓的运动，例如走路或游泳，对健康会比较好。6月22日出生的巨蟹座，比较容易罹患支气管炎和其它肺部方面的疾病，所以可能有痰多的毛病。
幸运数字
6月22日出生的人受到数字4(2+2=4)与天王星的影响。天王星代表的通常是反复无常而又极具爆炸性的特质。
受到数字4影响的人大都是个人主义者，因为他们通常不会吝于对小事发表他们的大观点，因此很容易引起别人的反感，甚至树立不少敌人──而且是暗箭伤人的那种。6月22日出生的人经常对自己或是与情绪有关的事感兴趣(受到巨蟹座的主宰行星月亮的加强影响)。既然22是一个双倍数字，再加上唯一能加倍后变成22的数字11，在任何月份的11日或是22日出生的人都会发展出一种对双胞胎、巧合、对称和其它有双倍特质的事物着迷不已的倾向。
Thursday, July 13, 2006
Another meaningful email: A Slice of Life [Love and Personal Power]
When you're in a romantic relationship, do you give away too much of yourself?
This may seem like a strange question; after all, isn't love supposed to be that way? The giving of oneself to one's partner?
Well, the problem with always placing someone else's needs and ideas above your own is that it's not sustainable.
When you fell in love with your partner, you did so because you found some aspects of him or her attractive. This attractiveness forms the core of your partner's personal power. It is what makes them likeable to others as well. You too have your own personal power. But when we love someone, it's natural for us to want to give him or her some of this power. We might consistently give in, for example, always admit fault in arguments, constantly accommodate their wishes, in turn curtailing our own needs and feelings. The problem begins when you suppress yourself too much and too often in order to inflate your partner. The relationship then becomes lop-sided - your partner begins to rely on your submission, praises and assistance, and you start to think that this is what makes you valuable, what makes you loveable.
But do you notice that the more you give in to someone, the more they tend to take advantage of you? Yes your partner may love you but they're human too and can be "taught" over time to perceive your love as this consistent yielding to their desires. Your partner can begin to believe that he or she is really more important than you - more attractive, more powerful, more well-liked; while you're turning weak, timid, disrespectful of yourself and basking in the rays of their light.
The thing is, your partner is looking for an equal, someone who can play off them, challenge them, learn with them, grow with them; not more admirers for their "fanclub". To build a meaningful relationship, you must have a healthy self-image. If you have a low assessment of yourself, over time your partner can come to have a low opinion of you too.
So remember, a healthy sustainable relationship can only be developed if both parties have a high sense of self-worth and personal powers are maintained at equitable levels. You're partners, and you're not an unworthy creature admiring someone far better than you.
This may seem like a strange question; after all, isn't love supposed to be that way? The giving of oneself to one's partner?
Well, the problem with always placing someone else's needs and ideas above your own is that it's not sustainable.
When you fell in love with your partner, you did so because you found some aspects of him or her attractive. This attractiveness forms the core of your partner's personal power. It is what makes them likeable to others as well. You too have your own personal power. But when we love someone, it's natural for us to want to give him or her some of this power. We might consistently give in, for example, always admit fault in arguments, constantly accommodate their wishes, in turn curtailing our own needs and feelings. The problem begins when you suppress yourself too much and too often in order to inflate your partner. The relationship then becomes lop-sided - your partner begins to rely on your submission, praises and assistance, and you start to think that this is what makes you valuable, what makes you loveable.
But do you notice that the more you give in to someone, the more they tend to take advantage of you? Yes your partner may love you but they're human too and can be "taught" over time to perceive your love as this consistent yielding to their desires. Your partner can begin to believe that he or she is really more important than you - more attractive, more powerful, more well-liked; while you're turning weak, timid, disrespectful of yourself and basking in the rays of their light.
The thing is, your partner is looking for an equal, someone who can play off them, challenge them, learn with them, grow with them; not more admirers for their "fanclub". To build a meaningful relationship, you must have a healthy self-image. If you have a low assessment of yourself, over time your partner can come to have a low opinion of you too.
So remember, a healthy sustainable relationship can only be developed if both parties have a high sense of self-worth and personal powers are maintained at equitable levels. You're partners, and you're not an unworthy creature admiring someone far better than you.
A meaningful email found: PARTNERS AND MARRIAGE
PARTNERS AND MARRIAGE
By Eduardo Jose E. Calasanz
I have never met a man who didn't want to be loved . But I have seldom met a man who didn't fear marriage . Something about the closure seems constricting , not enabling. Marriage seems easier to understand for what it cuts out of our lives than for what it makes possible within our lives.
When I was younger this fear immobilized me. I did not want to make a mistake. I saw my friends get married for reasons of social acceptability, or sexual fever, or just because they thought it was the logical thing to do. Then I watched, as they and their partners became embittered and petty in their dealings with each other. I looked at older couples and saw, at best, mutual toleration of each other. I imagined a lifetime of loveless nights and bickering and could not imagine subjecting myself or someone else to such a fate.
And yet, on rare occasions, I would see old couples who somehow seemed to glow in each other's presence . They seemed really in love, not just dependent upon each other and tolerant of each other's foibles. It was an astounding sight, and it seemed impossible. How, I asked myself, can they have survived so many years of sameness, so much irritation at the other's habits? What keeps love
alive in them, when most of us seem unable to even stay together, much less love each other?
The central secret seems to be in choosing well. There is something to the claim of fundamental compatibility . Good people can create a bad relationship , even though they both dearly want the relationship to succeed. It is important to find someone with whom you can create a good relationship from the outset. Unfortunately, it is hard to see clearly in the early stages.
Sexual hunger draws you to each other and colors the way you see yourselves together. It blinds you to the thousands of little things by which relationships eventually survive or fail. You need to find a way to see beyond this initial overwhelming sexual fascination. Some people choose to involve themselves sexually and ride out the most heated period of sexual attraction in order to see what is on the other side.
This can work, but it can also leave a trail of wounded hearts. Others deny the sexual side altogether in an attempt to get to know each other apart from their sexuality. But they cannot see clearly, because the presence of unfulfilled sexual desire looms so large that it keeps them from having any normal perception of what life would be like together.
The truly lucky people are the ones who manage to become long-time friends before they realize they are attracted to each other. They get to know each other's laughs, passions, sadness, and fears. They see each other at their worst and at their best. They share time together before they get swept into the entangling intimacy of their sexuality.
This is the ideal, but not often possible. If you fall under the spell of your sexual attraction immediately, you need to look beyond it for other keys to compatibility. One of these is laughter. Laughter tells you how much you will enjoy each other's company over the long term.
If your laughter together is good and healthy, and not at the expense of others, then you have a healthy relationship to the world. Laughter is the child of surprise. If you can make each other laugh , you can always surprise each other. And if you can always surprise each other, you can always keep the world around you new.
Beware of a relationship in which there is no laughter . Even the most intimate relationships based only on seriousness have a tendency to turn sour. Over time, sharing a common serious viewpoint on the world tends to tour n you against those who do not share the same viewpoint, and your relationship can become based on being critical together.
After laughter, look for a partner who deals with the world in a way you respect. When two people first get together, they tend to see their relationship as existing only in the space between the two of them. They find each other endlessly fascinating, and the overwhelming power of the emotions they are sharing obscures the outside world. As the relationship ages and grows, the outside world becomes important again. If your partner treats people or circumstances in a way you can't accept, you will inevitably come to grief. Look at the way she cares for others and deals with the daily affairs of life. If that makes you love her more, your love will grow. If it does not, be careful. If you do not respect the way you each deal with the world around you, eventually the two of you will not respect each other.
Look also at how your partner confronts the mysteries of life. We live on the cusp of poetry and practicality, and the real life of the heart resides in the poetic. If one of you is deeply affected by the mystery of the unseen in life and relationships, while the other is drawn only to the literal and the practical, you must take care that the distance doesn't become an unbridgeable gap that leaves you each feeling isolated and misunderstood.
There are many other keys, but you must find them by yourself. We all have unchangeable parts of our hearts that we will not betray and private commitments to a vision of life that we will not deny. If you fall in love with someone who cannot nourish those inviolable parts of you, or if you cannot nourish them in her, you will find yourselves growing further apart until you live in separate worlds where you share the business of life, but never touch each other where the heart lives and dreams. From there it is only a small leap to the cataloging of petty hurts and daily failures that leaves so many couples bitter and unsatisfied with their mates.
So choose carefully and well. If you do, you will have chosen a partner with whom you can grow, and then the real miracle of marriage can take place in your hearts. I pick my words carefully when I speak of a miracle. But I think it is not too strong a word. There is a miracle in marriage. It is called transformation. Transformation is one of the most common events of nature. The seed becomes the flower. The cocoon becomes the butterfly. Winter becomes spring and love becomes a child. We never question these, because we see them around us every day. To us they are not miracles, though if we did not know them they would be impossible to believe.
Marriage is a transformation we choose to make. Our love is planted like a seed, and in time it begins to flower. We cannot know the flower that will blossom, but we can be sure that a bloom will come.
If you have chosen carefully and wisely, the bloom will be good. If you have chosen poorly or for the wrong reason, the bloom will be flawed. We are quite willing to accept the reality of negative transformation in a marriage. It was negative transformation that always had me terrified of the bitter marriages that I feared when I was younger.
It never occurred tome to question the dark miracle that transformed love into harshness and bitterness. Yet I was unable to accept the possibility that the first heat of love could be transformed into something positive that was actually deeper and more meaningful than the heat of fresh passion. All I could believe in
was the power of this passion and the fear that when it cooled I would be left with something lesser and bitter.
But there is positive transformation as well. Like negative transformation, it results from a slow accretion of little things. But instead of death by a thousand blows, it is growth by a thousand touches of love. Two histories intermingle. Two separate beings, two separate presence, two separate consciousnesses come together and share a view of life that passes before them. They remain separate, but they also become one. There is an expansion of awareness, not a closure and a constriction, as I had once feared. This is not to say that there is not tension and there are not traps. Tension and traps are part of every choice of life , from celibate to monogamous to having multiple lovers. Each choice contains with in it the lingering doubt that the road not taken somehow more fruitful and exciting, and each becomes dulled to the richness that it alone contains.
But only marriage allows life to deepen and expand and be leavened by the knowledge that two have chosen, against all odds, to become one. Those who live together without marriage can know the pleasure of shared company, but there is a specific gravity in the marriage commitment that deepens that experience into something richer and more complex.
So do not fear marriage, just as you should not rush into it for the wrong reasons. It is an act of faith and it contains within it the power of transformation. If you believe in your heart that you have found someone with whom you are able to grow, if you have sufficient faith that you can resist the endless attraction of the road not taken and the partner not chosen, if you have the strength of heart to embrace the cycles and seasons that your love will experience, then you may be ready to seek the miracle that marriage offers. If not, then wait. The easy grace of a marriage well made is worth your patience. When the time comes, a thousand flowers will bloom...endlessly.
By Eduardo Jose E. Calasanz
I have never met a man who didn't want to be loved . But I have seldom met a man who didn't fear marriage . Something about the closure seems constricting , not enabling. Marriage seems easier to understand for what it cuts out of our lives than for what it makes possible within our lives.
When I was younger this fear immobilized me. I did not want to make a mistake. I saw my friends get married for reasons of social acceptability, or sexual fever, or just because they thought it was the logical thing to do. Then I watched, as they and their partners became embittered and petty in their dealings with each other. I looked at older couples and saw, at best, mutual toleration of each other. I imagined a lifetime of loveless nights and bickering and could not imagine subjecting myself or someone else to such a fate.
And yet, on rare occasions, I would see old couples who somehow seemed to glow in each other's presence . They seemed really in love, not just dependent upon each other and tolerant of each other's foibles. It was an astounding sight, and it seemed impossible. How, I asked myself, can they have survived so many years of sameness, so much irritation at the other's habits? What keeps love
alive in them, when most of us seem unable to even stay together, much less love each other?
The central secret seems to be in choosing well. There is something to the claim of fundamental compatibility . Good people can create a bad relationship , even though they both dearly want the relationship to succeed. It is important to find someone with whom you can create a good relationship from the outset. Unfortunately, it is hard to see clearly in the early stages.
Sexual hunger draws you to each other and colors the way you see yourselves together. It blinds you to the thousands of little things by which relationships eventually survive or fail. You need to find a way to see beyond this initial overwhelming sexual fascination. Some people choose to involve themselves sexually and ride out the most heated period of sexual attraction in order to see what is on the other side.
This can work, but it can also leave a trail of wounded hearts. Others deny the sexual side altogether in an attempt to get to know each other apart from their sexuality. But they cannot see clearly, because the presence of unfulfilled sexual desire looms so large that it keeps them from having any normal perception of what life would be like together.
The truly lucky people are the ones who manage to become long-time friends before they realize they are attracted to each other. They get to know each other's laughs, passions, sadness, and fears. They see each other at their worst and at their best. They share time together before they get swept into the entangling intimacy of their sexuality.
This is the ideal, but not often possible. If you fall under the spell of your sexual attraction immediately, you need to look beyond it for other keys to compatibility. One of these is laughter. Laughter tells you how much you will enjoy each other's company over the long term.
If your laughter together is good and healthy, and not at the expense of others, then you have a healthy relationship to the world. Laughter is the child of surprise. If you can make each other laugh , you can always surprise each other. And if you can always surprise each other, you can always keep the world around you new.
Beware of a relationship in which there is no laughter . Even the most intimate relationships based only on seriousness have a tendency to turn sour. Over time, sharing a common serious viewpoint on the world tends to tour n you against those who do not share the same viewpoint, and your relationship can become based on being critical together.
After laughter, look for a partner who deals with the world in a way you respect. When two people first get together, they tend to see their relationship as existing only in the space between the two of them. They find each other endlessly fascinating, and the overwhelming power of the emotions they are sharing obscures the outside world. As the relationship ages and grows, the outside world becomes important again. If your partner treats people or circumstances in a way you can't accept, you will inevitably come to grief. Look at the way she cares for others and deals with the daily affairs of life. If that makes you love her more, your love will grow. If it does not, be careful. If you do not respect the way you each deal with the world around you, eventually the two of you will not respect each other.
Look also at how your partner confronts the mysteries of life. We live on the cusp of poetry and practicality, and the real life of the heart resides in the poetic. If one of you is deeply affected by the mystery of the unseen in life and relationships, while the other is drawn only to the literal and the practical, you must take care that the distance doesn't become an unbridgeable gap that leaves you each feeling isolated and misunderstood.
There are many other keys, but you must find them by yourself. We all have unchangeable parts of our hearts that we will not betray and private commitments to a vision of life that we will not deny. If you fall in love with someone who cannot nourish those inviolable parts of you, or if you cannot nourish them in her, you will find yourselves growing further apart until you live in separate worlds where you share the business of life, but never touch each other where the heart lives and dreams. From there it is only a small leap to the cataloging of petty hurts and daily failures that leaves so many couples bitter and unsatisfied with their mates.
So choose carefully and well. If you do, you will have chosen a partner with whom you can grow, and then the real miracle of marriage can take place in your hearts. I pick my words carefully when I speak of a miracle. But I think it is not too strong a word. There is a miracle in marriage. It is called transformation. Transformation is one of the most common events of nature. The seed becomes the flower. The cocoon becomes the butterfly. Winter becomes spring and love becomes a child. We never question these, because we see them around us every day. To us they are not miracles, though if we did not know them they would be impossible to believe.
Marriage is a transformation we choose to make. Our love is planted like a seed, and in time it begins to flower. We cannot know the flower that will blossom, but we can be sure that a bloom will come.
If you have chosen carefully and wisely, the bloom will be good. If you have chosen poorly or for the wrong reason, the bloom will be flawed. We are quite willing to accept the reality of negative transformation in a marriage. It was negative transformation that always had me terrified of the bitter marriages that I feared when I was younger.
It never occurred tome to question the dark miracle that transformed love into harshness and bitterness. Yet I was unable to accept the possibility that the first heat of love could be transformed into something positive that was actually deeper and more meaningful than the heat of fresh passion. All I could believe in
was the power of this passion and the fear that when it cooled I would be left with something lesser and bitter.
But there is positive transformation as well. Like negative transformation, it results from a slow accretion of little things. But instead of death by a thousand blows, it is growth by a thousand touches of love. Two histories intermingle. Two separate beings, two separate presence, two separate consciousnesses come together and share a view of life that passes before them. They remain separate, but they also become one. There is an expansion of awareness, not a closure and a constriction, as I had once feared. This is not to say that there is not tension and there are not traps. Tension and traps are part of every choice of life , from celibate to monogamous to having multiple lovers. Each choice contains with in it the lingering doubt that the road not taken somehow more fruitful and exciting, and each becomes dulled to the richness that it alone contains.
But only marriage allows life to deepen and expand and be leavened by the knowledge that two have chosen, against all odds, to become one. Those who live together without marriage can know the pleasure of shared company, but there is a specific gravity in the marriage commitment that deepens that experience into something richer and more complex.
So do not fear marriage, just as you should not rush into it for the wrong reasons. It is an act of faith and it contains within it the power of transformation. If you believe in your heart that you have found someone with whom you are able to grow, if you have sufficient faith that you can resist the endless attraction of the road not taken and the partner not chosen, if you have the strength of heart to embrace the cycles and seasons that your love will experience, then you may be ready to seek the miracle that marriage offers. If not, then wait. The easy grace of a marriage well made is worth your patience. When the time comes, a thousand flowers will bloom...endlessly.
Wednesday, July 12, 2006
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Friday, July 07, 2006
Relationship is not an algorithm
Relationship is not an algorithm. It does not take in fix inputs and does not have a set of predetermine steps of calculating it. Thus it does not produced a predictable set of results.
Therefore, Relationship does not have the property of an algorithm, thus relationship is not an algorithm.
Therefore, Relationship does not have the property of an algorithm, thus relationship is not an algorithm.
Thursday, July 06, 2006
A Baton!!!
Piccola has send mi this and i shall do it although she refuse to do the MEME of "100 things abt me" which i send her.. :P
[1, What is your name?]
I have many online name since my beginning of internet days. poohfa -> falim -> huateduck
[2, What did you eat last night for your supper?]
Din have any.
[3, What is your job?]
High tech coolie. AKA programmer. just changed a new job so still not sure wats install for me. :)
[4, What do you like to do?]
Being member of OSF, i read ppl's blog everyday. I make myself a rss reader which i knoe who has updated their blog without going to their site and it acts as a bookmark for me. Besides tat, my life is mostly online.
Wen im offline, i read books.. chinese novel (those internet publish type).. books on how company starts, like goole story and of course manga. :D
I like KTV a lot but it is really hard to find ppl to go with me nowadays.
[5, What is you favorite type?]
Someone i can talk to, understand wat I do and stand my crap. The rest are gd to have.
[6, What is your special ability?]
Super gd feel with computer and got in built feelers on my head?
[7, Do you have any license or qualification?]
Diploma, BSc, JCP, Class 2B
[8, Do you have concerns?]
Erm.. got.. but ignoring.. ha..
[9. What is your favorite food and dislike food?]
Favorite: Read MEME： 7 sins of food
Dislike: Nothing i can think of.. I eat almost everything...
[10. Say a word for person you love]
Still searching...
[11, Write 5 people you want to give this baton message]
Decided to skip this.. do it if u wan. :D
[1, What is your name?]
I have many online name since my beginning of internet days. poohfa -> falim -> huateduck
[2, What did you eat last night for your supper?]
Din have any.
[3, What is your job?]
High tech coolie. AKA programmer. just changed a new job so still not sure wats install for me. :)
[4, What do you like to do?]
Being member of OSF, i read ppl's blog everyday. I make myself a rss reader which i knoe who has updated their blog without going to their site and it acts as a bookmark for me. Besides tat, my life is mostly online.
Wen im offline, i read books.. chinese novel (those internet publish type).. books on how company starts, like goole story and of course manga. :D
I like KTV a lot but it is really hard to find ppl to go with me nowadays.
[5, What is you favorite type?]
Someone i can talk to, understand wat I do and stand my crap. The rest are gd to have.
[6, What is your special ability?]
Super gd feel with computer and got in built feelers on my head?
[7, Do you have any license or qualification?]
Diploma, BSc, JCP, Class 2B
[8, Do you have concerns?]
Erm.. got.. but ignoring.. ha..
[9. What is your favorite food and dislike food?]
Favorite: Read MEME： 7 sins of food
Dislike: Nothing i can think of.. I eat almost everything...
[10. Say a word for person you love]
Still searching...
[11, Write 5 people you want to give this baton message]
Decided to skip this.. do it if u wan. :D
Wednesday, June 28, 2006
本性解碼
| 整體性格 huateduck先生，崇尚唯美，幽默風趣；自然隨和，行事委婉圓融，懂得享受生活；也有考慮周全，追求完美，寬宏大量的一面。 待人性格 huateduck先生待人：通情達理；有情有義；很容易融入團體；敢於表現也懂謙虛；有領域感但不強烈；坦率但不洩密。 處世性格 huateduck先生處事：能夠積極表達主張；不太固執；從善如流；把握重點兼顧細節；比較理想主義；隨性自在隨機應變。 性格缺點 huateduck先生性格的缺點為：容易妥協立場不夠堅定；有時候拐彎抹角不夠乾脆；偶爾會不喜歡交際應酬。 價值觀 huateduck先生重視的價值觀為：和諧的人際關係；信息的交流；愛情的滋潤；較不擅長：與眾不同；追逐功利；出頭爭先。 愛情性格 huateduck先生在愛情上喜歡講究效率快速進展，講究浪漫氣氛，會吃醋也能包容；較常表現：風度翩翩，聰明機智，溫柔感性，精挑細選,。 金錢性格 huateduck先生的金錢觀：花錢很實在，不會太浪費，喜歡按照計劃用錢；容易把錢用於：崇尚唯美，滿足好奇心，照顧親人，健康養生。 |
Tuesday, June 27, 2006
命
飛黃騰達心靈開運網 Superfate Fortune Management
您是屬於太陽命
◎您是夏天的太陽，閒不下來，受人景仰，普照大地，付出不求回報。熱情有禮，喜歡有智慧，守承諾的人。個性開朗，熱心大方，不會斤斤計較，具有領導特質，不容易接受他人的指揮。◎
根據命理來分析您的個性，潛意識，以及行為模式，您是屬於「太陽命」，因此您天生具有太陽的特質，開朗活潑，熱心大方，不會斤斤計較，也不喜歡搞小團體，對於公理正義非常執著。太陽在天空發光發熱，因此您天生具有老大命，也有領袖命，有表現欲望，但也有犧牲奉獻的精神。太陽不會依自己的喜好來照耀大地，每一個地區都會受到普照，因此您喜歡一視同仁，公私分明，不喜歡有人假公濟私，或搞小團體。太陽每天東昇西降，規律運行，沒有人能改變太陽的軌道，因此您也很有規律性以及耐心，極少半途而廢，而且您也不能接受有人命令您要做什麼，或不做什麼。
此外，您喜歡老實誠信的人，不喜歡自以為是的人，而能讓您佩服的人，多半是有想法，才華與智慧的人，能夠在心靈上讓您提昇的人。您的一生，像太陽一樣，發光發熱，受到眾人矚目。但是陽光有時候也會被烏雲遮蔽，讓您覺得力不從心，有時候陽光炎熱，您善意付出，卻造成別人的壓力，也會讓您很無奈，這些都是您的磨練，只要您經得起外在的考驗，不怨天尤人，進而學習成長，一旦通過考驗，您的成就將不可限量，是領袖級的人物。
◎您本命五行火太旺，心血管機能比較弱，容易有高血壓，高血脂，心跳的問題。◎
根據命理分析，您天生心血管功能比較差，在年輕的時候不會有太大的問題，頂多是長青春痘，口舌生瘡等問題，但是如果您現在不照顧心血管及內分泌系統，隨著年紀越來越大就很容易有高血壓、高血脂、心跳不正常、眼壓過高的問題，甚至容易導致心血管功能異常、內分泌系統異常、腸阻塞脹氣、心律不整、心室肥大、腦溢血、中風、視力病變等問題。因此您不能過度勞累，要維持正常作息，早睡早起，才可以保護先天比較弱的心血管功能。此外，請您要定時檢查心血管功能，更要注意家族裡是否有遺傳性的心血管病史，由於體質偏向心虛血弱，所以盡量不要喝冰的飲料，以免傷了元氣。
此外，所謂「病從口入」，人類大部分的疾病來源都跟飲食有關，根據中醫理論，食物可以分成金、木、水、火、土等五種五行。您似乎應該蠻能接受帶有苦味的食物，例如黑咖啡，巧克力等，應該都符合您的口味。因此，您的細胞中，充滿太多「火」的五行，會導致健康，財運與事業的不圓滿建議您平時最好能飲食均衡，菜色均衡，則陰陽五行調和，生活美滿幸福。
◎但是您八字缺土，胃腸的機能也比較弱，容易有腹脹，腹痛，腹瀉，消化吸收的問題。◎
根據命理分析，您天生胃腸功能比較弱，在年輕的時候不會有太大的問題，等多是腸胃不適、胃酸過多、脹氣、腹瀉、腹痛等問題，但隨著年紀越來越大，胃腸功能需要更多的照顧，不然很容易導致消化系統病變，例如食道炎，胃炎、胃潰瘍、腸炎、大腸息肉、痔瘡、糖尿病等問題。因此您不能過度勞累，要調適壓力，維持正常作息，早睡早起，三餐要定時定量，不能喝酒，少吃刺激性飲食，才可以保護先天比較弱的胃腸功能。
此外，您是屬於容易緊張的類型，生活也比較缺乏規律性，因此三餐常不定時不定量，甚至因長時間工作而來不及用餐，導致胃腸的消化吸收功能受損。如果您想改變這種現象，一定要三餐定時定量，不可暴飲暴食。身體要放輕鬆，精神要保持愉快，不要給自己過多的壓力。只要您每天保持好心情，那您的命運將會有很大的改變，身體健康，財運順利，事業圓滿，家庭幸福。
◎簡易愛情分析，您是屬於柏拉圖式的精神愛情。您的愛情因為雙方生活背景差異大，價值觀也有落差，因此對方並不容易真正瞭解您，其實只要您們多溝通，讓對方瞭解自己真正的想法，相處就不會有問題。◎
您愛情的模式，根據命理分析，您對於心儀的異性，很容易心動，但不容易成功，常常無疾而終，因為要兩個人都一見鍾情確實有點難。一般來說，異性對您的第一印象都不會太深，您是需要經過交往的階段，異性才會發現您的優點與內在美。換句話說，您很容易第一眼就喜歡上一個人，卻不容易經過長時間相處而喜歡上一個人。相反地，您的戀愛對象不容易第一眼就喜歡上您，卻很可能經過長時間相處而喜歡上您。因此，如果您在等待美好的愛情，您可以試著把自己的內在美透過各種方式表現出來，多參加各種活動，多培養各種興趣，多接觸不同人群，如此您會在不知不覺中，讓您的內在美隨時展現，愛情才會更順利。
在人生的旅程中，您的戀愛或結婚對象很有可能是先經由親友介紹或相親而認識，因為您對於愛情比較不太有經驗，也不善於包裝自己、行銷自己，有時更怯於表達自己的感情，碰到喜歡的人也多半停留在欣賞的階段，不容易積極主動的展開追求，更不會死纏爛打，因此不僅錯失許多機會，更在心中產生既期待又怕受傷害的感覺，反而更不容易擦出愛的火花。您若是對象還沒有出現，不要心急，在您身邊確定有人正喜歡著您，只要真心誠意去追求，幸福就在您身邊。
◎簡易財運事業分析，您會賺錢，但不容易守財，也不容易經由儲蓄累積財富。您對於生命比較達觀，不會對自己或家人朋友太小氣。◎
根據命理分析，您會賺錢，但是不容易守財，也就是不容易經由儲蓄累積財富。您對於生命比較達觀，因此不會對自己，也不會對家人或朋友太小氣。在您手頭比較緊的時候，該花的錢您還是會花，不會一毛不拔；在您手頭比較寬裕的時候，您花錢會很大方，不會對自己、家人或朋友小氣，正因為如此，您當然不容易存錢。此外，您很容易因為朋友的介紹而做了某些投資，而且常常虧本。這是因為您的個性交遊廣闊，也認識很多人，所以當朋友來找您投資時，您不容易分辨風險，也不容易拒絕，所以當然很容易虧本。如果以一生的時間來衡量，您今生大部份的財富會被您拿來做自己想做的事情，您會認為您使用過的錢財才是您真正擁有的財富。之後，您不會遺留太多的財富給後代子孫。
您是屬於太陽命
◎您是夏天的太陽，閒不下來，受人景仰，普照大地，付出不求回報。熱情有禮，喜歡有智慧，守承諾的人。個性開朗，熱心大方，不會斤斤計較，具有領導特質，不容易接受他人的指揮。◎
根據命理來分析您的個性，潛意識，以及行為模式，您是屬於「太陽命」，因此您天生具有太陽的特質，開朗活潑，熱心大方，不會斤斤計較，也不喜歡搞小團體，對於公理正義非常執著。太陽在天空發光發熱，因此您天生具有老大命，也有領袖命，有表現欲望，但也有犧牲奉獻的精神。太陽不會依自己的喜好來照耀大地，每一個地區都會受到普照，因此您喜歡一視同仁，公私分明，不喜歡有人假公濟私，或搞小團體。太陽每天東昇西降，規律運行，沒有人能改變太陽的軌道，因此您也很有規律性以及耐心，極少半途而廢，而且您也不能接受有人命令您要做什麼，或不做什麼。
此外，您喜歡老實誠信的人，不喜歡自以為是的人，而能讓您佩服的人，多半是有想法，才華與智慧的人，能夠在心靈上讓您提昇的人。您的一生，像太陽一樣，發光發熱，受到眾人矚目。但是陽光有時候也會被烏雲遮蔽，讓您覺得力不從心，有時候陽光炎熱，您善意付出，卻造成別人的壓力，也會讓您很無奈，這些都是您的磨練，只要您經得起外在的考驗，不怨天尤人，進而學習成長，一旦通過考驗，您的成就將不可限量，是領袖級的人物。
◎您本命五行火太旺，心血管機能比較弱，容易有高血壓，高血脂，心跳的問題。◎
根據命理分析，您天生心血管功能比較差，在年輕的時候不會有太大的問題，頂多是長青春痘，口舌生瘡等問題，但是如果您現在不照顧心血管及內分泌系統，隨著年紀越來越大就很容易有高血壓、高血脂、心跳不正常、眼壓過高的問題，甚至容易導致心血管功能異常、內分泌系統異常、腸阻塞脹氣、心律不整、心室肥大、腦溢血、中風、視力病變等問題。因此您不能過度勞累，要維持正常作息，早睡早起，才可以保護先天比較弱的心血管功能。此外，請您要定時檢查心血管功能，更要注意家族裡是否有遺傳性的心血管病史，由於體質偏向心虛血弱，所以盡量不要喝冰的飲料，以免傷了元氣。
此外，所謂「病從口入」，人類大部分的疾病來源都跟飲食有關，根據中醫理論，食物可以分成金、木、水、火、土等五種五行。您似乎應該蠻能接受帶有苦味的食物，例如黑咖啡，巧克力等，應該都符合您的口味。因此，您的細胞中，充滿太多「火」的五行，會導致健康，財運與事業的不圓滿建議您平時最好能飲食均衡，菜色均衡，則陰陽五行調和，生活美滿幸福。
◎但是您八字缺土，胃腸的機能也比較弱，容易有腹脹，腹痛，腹瀉，消化吸收的問題。◎
根據命理分析，您天生胃腸功能比較弱，在年輕的時候不會有太大的問題，等多是腸胃不適、胃酸過多、脹氣、腹瀉、腹痛等問題，但隨著年紀越來越大，胃腸功能需要更多的照顧，不然很容易導致消化系統病變，例如食道炎，胃炎、胃潰瘍、腸炎、大腸息肉、痔瘡、糖尿病等問題。因此您不能過度勞累，要調適壓力，維持正常作息，早睡早起，三餐要定時定量，不能喝酒，少吃刺激性飲食，才可以保護先天比較弱的胃腸功能。
此外，您是屬於容易緊張的類型，生活也比較缺乏規律性，因此三餐常不定時不定量，甚至因長時間工作而來不及用餐，導致胃腸的消化吸收功能受損。如果您想改變這種現象，一定要三餐定時定量，不可暴飲暴食。身體要放輕鬆，精神要保持愉快，不要給自己過多的壓力。只要您每天保持好心情，那您的命運將會有很大的改變，身體健康，財運順利，事業圓滿，家庭幸福。
◎簡易愛情分析，您是屬於柏拉圖式的精神愛情。您的愛情因為雙方生活背景差異大，價值觀也有落差，因此對方並不容易真正瞭解您，其實只要您們多溝通，讓對方瞭解自己真正的想法，相處就不會有問題。◎
您愛情的模式，根據命理分析，您對於心儀的異性，很容易心動，但不容易成功，常常無疾而終，因為要兩個人都一見鍾情確實有點難。一般來說，異性對您的第一印象都不會太深，您是需要經過交往的階段，異性才會發現您的優點與內在美。換句話說，您很容易第一眼就喜歡上一個人，卻不容易經過長時間相處而喜歡上一個人。相反地，您的戀愛對象不容易第一眼就喜歡上您，卻很可能經過長時間相處而喜歡上您。因此，如果您在等待美好的愛情，您可以試著把自己的內在美透過各種方式表現出來，多參加各種活動，多培養各種興趣，多接觸不同人群，如此您會在不知不覺中，讓您的內在美隨時展現，愛情才會更順利。
在人生的旅程中，您的戀愛或結婚對象很有可能是先經由親友介紹或相親而認識，因為您對於愛情比較不太有經驗，也不善於包裝自己、行銷自己，有時更怯於表達自己的感情，碰到喜歡的人也多半停留在欣賞的階段，不容易積極主動的展開追求，更不會死纏爛打，因此不僅錯失許多機會，更在心中產生既期待又怕受傷害的感覺，反而更不容易擦出愛的火花。您若是對象還沒有出現，不要心急，在您身邊確定有人正喜歡著您，只要真心誠意去追求，幸福就在您身邊。
◎簡易財運事業分析，您會賺錢，但不容易守財，也不容易經由儲蓄累積財富。您對於生命比較達觀，不會對自己或家人朋友太小氣。◎
根據命理分析，您會賺錢，但是不容易守財，也就是不容易經由儲蓄累積財富。您對於生命比較達觀，因此不會對自己，也不會對家人或朋友太小氣。在您手頭比較緊的時候，該花的錢您還是會花，不會一毛不拔；在您手頭比較寬裕的時候，您花錢會很大方，不會對自己、家人或朋友小氣，正因為如此，您當然不容易存錢。此外，您很容易因為朋友的介紹而做了某些投資，而且常常虧本。這是因為您的個性交遊廣闊，也認識很多人，所以當朋友來找您投資時，您不容易分辨風險，也不容易拒絕，所以當然很容易虧本。如果以一生的時間來衡量，您今生大部份的財富會被您拿來做自己想做的事情，您會認為您使用過的錢財才是您真正擁有的財富。之後，您不會遺留太多的財富給後代子孫。
Thursday, June 22, 2006
又过一年
在二十六年前的今天，有一个婴孩来到了这个人世间。对人类的未来，可能是祸，可能是福，暂时还不知。只知道，这二十六年来，已经有几个人类被他影响到，但还安然无恙。
男孩走的路，一向来都和平常人不一样。他未必特别，只是过的不一样的生活。可能是祸，可能是福，暂时还不知。只知道，这二十六年来，男孩还安然无恙。
这二十六年来，男孩的感情生活，平平淡淡。爱情的幼苗，没几个开花结果。对别人来说，可能是祸，可能是福，暂时还不知。只知道，男孩还抱着希望，希望这一天的到来。
二十六年已过，男孩也成长了不少，身.心.灵.也变化了不少。现在的他，有好，有坏。对男孩来说，可能是祸，可能是福，暂时还不知。男孩只希望，生活过的顺心一点，红颜知己出现早一点，钱赚多一点，身体更健康一点。
今年会更好。生日快乐。
男孩走的路，一向来都和平常人不一样。他未必特别，只是过的不一样的生活。可能是祸，可能是福，暂时还不知。只知道，这二十六年来，男孩还安然无恙。
这二十六年来，男孩的感情生活，平平淡淡。爱情的幼苗，没几个开花结果。对别人来说，可能是祸，可能是福，暂时还不知。只知道，男孩还抱着希望，希望这一天的到来。
二十六年已过，男孩也成长了不少，身.心.灵.也变化了不少。现在的他，有好，有坏。对男孩来说，可能是祸，可能是福，暂时还不知。男孩只希望，生活过的顺心一点，红颜知己出现早一点，钱赚多一点，身体更健康一点。
今年会更好。生日快乐。
Wednesday, June 14, 2006
why you’re still single...
Taken from Cruz Teng's website... It suppose to tell you y you are still single.. hmm...
T?TakenTaasd
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Between four colour combinations, please choose one:
a. Orange + Yellow
b. Red + Yellow
c. Purple + Pink
d. Green + Pink
Orange + Yellow
你過於保護自己讓人覺得太過現實，考量太多現實層面的狀況會讓你太過理智，顯得過於保護自己，一旦覺得不快樂的時候就馬上拒絕對方，這樣的態度自然阻擋了追求者的出現，而且記得要把對舊情人的愛完全放掉，才能重新找到新感情。
Red + Yellow
因為你的強勢把追求者嚇跑了，基本上你太過大男人或大女人主義，具有強烈的掌握慾望，處處想要佔上風，所以你會想要約束對方，但這樣的態度反而會讓人不敢接近。
Purple + Pink
太過被動的等待愛情是你的致命傷，如果想要被人追求就得先轉變生活圈，才有可能會遇到好的對象。選擇這個顏色的人個性會比較保守而且對愛完全理想化，雖然平時可能給人家的感覺是非常開放的，但是她的內在卻非常傳統，一旦談戀愛就做好嫁人的心理準備。
Green + Pink
眼光太高而且愛挑剔別人的你，讓人有距離感不敢靠近你，試著把標準放低一點，追求者自然會出現！
T?TakenTaasd
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Between four colour combinations, please choose one:
a. Orange + Yellow
b. Red + Yellow
c. Purple + Pink
d. Green + Pink
Orange + Yellow
你過於保護自己讓人覺得太過現實，考量太多現實層面的狀況會讓你太過理智，顯得過於保護自己，一旦覺得不快樂的時候就馬上拒絕對方，這樣的態度自然阻擋了追求者的出現，而且記得要把對舊情人的愛完全放掉，才能重新找到新感情。
Red + Yellow
因為你的強勢把追求者嚇跑了，基本上你太過大男人或大女人主義，具有強烈的掌握慾望，處處想要佔上風，所以你會想要約束對方，但這樣的態度反而會讓人不敢接近。
Purple + Pink
太過被動的等待愛情是你的致命傷，如果想要被人追求就得先轉變生活圈，才有可能會遇到好的對象。選擇這個顏色的人個性會比較保守而且對愛完全理想化，雖然平時可能給人家的感覺是非常開放的，但是她的內在卻非常傳統，一旦談戀愛就做好嫁人的心理準備。
Green + Pink
眼光太高而且愛挑剔別人的你，讓人有距離感不敢靠近你，試著把標準放低一點，追求者自然會出現！
Tuesday, June 06, 2006
男孩与花园老板
有一天，男孩在外头玩耍的时候，遇到一位花园老板。好客的老板，邀请了男孩到花园玩。
花园里有各种各样的花，漂亮极了。难得有缘，老板决定送男孩一朵花，叫男孩往前走，随意的挑。
花园里的花，有长的，有短的，有美的，有丑的。真是百花齐放。
男孩走着走着，看到一朵花，可是太远了，只好放弃。再走着，男孩看上了一朵普通的花。男孩把花採下来，继续走着。
走久了，男孩和花朵也产生了共鸣，但是，花朵是不属于男孩的，男孩只好把花朵放下。在走着，发现了一朵可爱的花。男孩想把花採起来，可是，花儿有刺，也在悬崖旁，男孩採不了。男孩试了几次，不成功，也只好放弃。
不久，太阳开始下山了。男孩伤心的空着手从花园出来。老板安慰着男孩，别难过，有缘会找到的。男孩点点头，开始朝着夕阳的方向走。
花园里有各种各样的花，漂亮极了。难得有缘，老板决定送男孩一朵花，叫男孩往前走，随意的挑。
花园里的花，有长的，有短的，有美的，有丑的。真是百花齐放。
男孩走着走着，看到一朵花，可是太远了，只好放弃。再走着，男孩看上了一朵普通的花。男孩把花採下来，继续走着。
走久了，男孩和花朵也产生了共鸣，但是，花朵是不属于男孩的，男孩只好把花朵放下。在走着，发现了一朵可爱的花。男孩想把花採起来，可是，花儿有刺，也在悬崖旁，男孩採不了。男孩试了几次，不成功，也只好放弃。
不久，太阳开始下山了。男孩伤心的空着手从花园出来。老板安慰着男孩，别难过，有缘会找到的。男孩点点头，开始朝着夕阳的方向走。
Monday, May 22, 2006
屋漏偏逢连夜雨船迟又遇打头风
everybody... repeat after me..
屋漏偏逢连夜雨船迟又遇打头风
nothing much.. just i finally knoe wat is the full version of this sentence.. :D
屋漏偏逢连夜雨船迟又遇打头风
nothing much.. just i finally knoe wat is the full version of this sentence.. :D
Saturday, May 20, 2006
Sunday, May 14, 2006
Monday, May 08, 2006
男孩与深林
有一天，男孩在外头玩耍的时候，发现了一座深林。深林里，有高高的树，绿绿的草原。男孩爱上了这座深林。
男孩每天都到深林里玩，直到有一天，深林被围起来了。有人买下了这座深林。男孩伤心了。男孩在围栏外，徘徊了一阵之，收起了心情，也开始寻找别座深林。
有一天，男孩发现围栏不见了。原来的买家破产了，只好放弃了深林。男孩很高心，开始每天去深林里玩。日子久了，男孩开始梦想在深林里建造一个家。
有一天，男孩玩到累了，不小心在一棵大树下，睡着了。在梦里，男孩把深林买下了，也造了一间房子。男孩很开心的在深林里玩。
忽然，有位仙女出现。仙女对男孩说，深林是不属于任何人的，男孩也不应该在深林里造屋子，因为男孩是不适合在这座深林里生存的。说完，仙女就不见了。
男孩惊醒了。发现自己在深林的外面，原来的出口也不见了。男孩开始迷惘了，也迷失了每天的目的。
男孩思考了很久，觉得仙女说的对，觉得自己太自私，太自我。男孩开始朝着夕阳的方向走，寻找下一座属于自己的深林。
男孩每天都到深林里玩，直到有一天，深林被围起来了。有人买下了这座深林。男孩伤心了。男孩在围栏外，徘徊了一阵之，收起了心情，也开始寻找别座深林。
有一天，男孩发现围栏不见了。原来的买家破产了，只好放弃了深林。男孩很高心，开始每天去深林里玩。日子久了，男孩开始梦想在深林里建造一个家。
有一天，男孩玩到累了，不小心在一棵大树下，睡着了。在梦里，男孩把深林买下了，也造了一间房子。男孩很开心的在深林里玩。
忽然，有位仙女出现。仙女对男孩说，深林是不属于任何人的，男孩也不应该在深林里造屋子，因为男孩是不适合在这座深林里生存的。说完，仙女就不见了。
男孩惊醒了。发现自己在深林的外面，原来的出口也不见了。男孩开始迷惘了，也迷失了每天的目的。
男孩思考了很久，觉得仙女说的对，觉得自己太自私，太自我。男孩开始朝着夕阳的方向走，寻找下一座属于自己的深林。
Thursday, May 04, 2006
Monday, May 01, 2006
Extremely extremely....
lim siong huat -- [adjective]: Extremely extreme! 'How will you be defined in the dictionary?' at QuizGalaxy.com |
Thursday, April 27, 2006
The Simplest Data Structure
"What is the simplest data structure in Java u can use?"
I was being asked this question over msn.
My reply was "linked list".
"Do you think array is the simplest data structure for java?"
After thinking for a few moments... I rattled:
"Array is not a data structure. D/S refers to how u can store ur data and retrieve it in a systematically manner. u can use array to implement data struc. but array itself is not a data struc. one gd reason is, u cant remove an element from an array. meaning u wan to remove element 3 from a data struc but in array, u cant except by recreating it but in a normal d/s u can."
however, i received an url Wiki: Array
.......
I guess i need to go back revise my D/S book more.
I was being asked this question over msn.
My reply was "linked list".
"Do you think array is the simplest data structure for java?"
After thinking for a few moments... I rattled:
"Array is not a data structure. D/S refers to how u can store ur data and retrieve it in a systematically manner. u can use array to implement data struc. but array itself is not a data struc. one gd reason is, u cant remove an element from an array. meaning u wan to remove element 3 from a data struc but in array, u cant except by recreating it but in a normal d/s u can."
however, i received an url Wiki: Array
.......
I guess i need to go back revise my D/S book more.
Tuesday, April 25, 2006
An english post.
I have been posting in chinese recently, now is time to post in english before i begain to forget abt my abc.
Hi! This is an English post! :)
Hi! This is an English post! :)
The world's Shortest personality test..
| Your Personality Profile |
 You are elegant, withdrawn, and brilliant. Your mind is a weapon, able to solve any puzzle. You are also great at poking holes in arguments and common beliefs. For you, comfort and calm are very important. You tend to thrive on your own and shrug off most affection. You prefer to protect your emotions and stay strong. |
Tuesday, April 11, 2006
Thursday, April 06, 2006
传: 给25岁男人的忠告
当我在找Oracle的资料时，在这看到的 http://www.blogcn.com/User2/zico_yu/。
一个有趣的短文。
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给25岁男人的忠告
1.男人是社会的主体,不管你信或不信.所以男人应该有种责任感.
2.25岁之前,请记得,爱情通常是假的,或者不是你所想象的那样纯洁和永远.如果你过了25岁,那么你应该懂得这个道理.
3.吃饭7成饱最舒服.对待女友最多也请你保持在7成.
4.30岁之前请爱惜自己的身体,前30年你找病,后30年病找你.如果你过了30岁,你自然也会懂得这个道理.
5.事业远比爱情重要.如果说事业都不能永恒,那么爱情只能算是昙花一现.
6.不要轻易接受追求你的女孩.女追男隔层纱.如果你很容易就陷进去,你会发现你会错过很多东西,失去很多东西.
7.请你相信,能用钱解决的问题,都不是问题.如果你认为钱索王道,有钱有女人,没钱没女人,那么.女人不是问题.
8.请永远积极向上.每个男人都有他可爱的地方,但是不可爱的地方只有不积极面对生活.
9.不要连续2次让同一个女人伤害.好马不吃回头草,是有他道理的.如果认真考虑过该分手,那么请不要做任何舍不得的行动.
10.如果你和你前女友能做朋友,那么你要问自己:为什么?如果分手后还是朋友,那么只有2个可能:.你们当初都只是玩玩而已,没付出彼此最真的感情.或者:必定有个人是在默默的付出无怨无悔!
11.永远不要太相信女人在恋爱时的甜言蜜语.都说女人爱听甜言蜜语,其实,男人更喜欢.
12.请不要为自己的相貌或者身高过分担心和自卑.人是动物,但是区别于动物.先天条件并不是阻挡你好好生活的借口.人的心灵远胜于相貌,请相信这点.如果有人以相貌取人,那么你也没必要太在意.因为他从某种意义来讲,只是只动物.你会跟动物怄气吗?
13.失恋时,只有2种可能,要么你爱她她不爱你,或者相反.那么,当你爱的人不再爱你,或者从来没爱过你时.你没有遗憾,因为你失去的只是一个不爱你的人.
14.请不要欺骗善良的女孩.这个世界上,善良的女孩太少.
15.不能偏激的认为金钱万能,至少,金钱治不好艾滋病.
16.请一定要有自信.你就是一道风景,没必要在别人风景里面仰视.
17.受到再大的打击,只要生命还在,请相信每天的太阳都是新的.
18.爱情永远不可能是天平.你想在爱情里幸福就要舍得伤心.
19.如果你喜欢一个认为别人应该对她好的mm,请尽早放弃.没有人是应该对一个人好的.如果她不明白这个道理,也就是她根本不懂得珍惜.
20.不要因为寂寞而’找’gf,寂寞男人请要学会品味寂寞.请记住:即使寂寞,远方黑暗的夜空下,一定有人和你一样,寂寞的人不同,仰望的星空却是唯一.
21.任何事没有永远.也别问怎样才能永远.生活有很多无奈.请尽量充实自己,充实生活.请善待生活.
End.男人有很多无奈,生活很累但是因为生活才有意义.当你以为你一无所有时,你至少还有时间,时间能抚平一切创伤.所以请不要流泪.
一个有趣的短文。
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给25岁男人的忠告
1.男人是社会的主体,不管你信或不信.所以男人应该有种责任感.
2.25岁之前,请记得,爱情通常是假的,或者不是你所想象的那样纯洁和永远.如果你过了25岁,那么你应该懂得这个道理.
3.吃饭7成饱最舒服.对待女友最多也请你保持在7成.
4.30岁之前请爱惜自己的身体,前30年你找病,后30年病找你.如果你过了30岁,你自然也会懂得这个道理.
5.事业远比爱情重要.如果说事业都不能永恒,那么爱情只能算是昙花一现.
6.不要轻易接受追求你的女孩.女追男隔层纱.如果你很容易就陷进去,你会发现你会错过很多东西,失去很多东西.
7.请你相信,能用钱解决的问题,都不是问题.如果你认为钱索王道,有钱有女人,没钱没女人,那么.女人不是问题.
8.请永远积极向上.每个男人都有他可爱的地方,但是不可爱的地方只有不积极面对生活.
9.不要连续2次让同一个女人伤害.好马不吃回头草,是有他道理的.如果认真考虑过该分手,那么请不要做任何舍不得的行动.
10.如果你和你前女友能做朋友,那么你要问自己:为什么?如果分手后还是朋友,那么只有2个可能:.你们当初都只是玩玩而已,没付出彼此最真的感情.或者:必定有个人是在默默的付出无怨无悔!
11.永远不要太相信女人在恋爱时的甜言蜜语.都说女人爱听甜言蜜语,其实,男人更喜欢.
12.请不要为自己的相貌或者身高过分担心和自卑.人是动物,但是区别于动物.先天条件并不是阻挡你好好生活的借口.人的心灵远胜于相貌,请相信这点.如果有人以相貌取人,那么你也没必要太在意.因为他从某种意义来讲,只是只动物.你会跟动物怄气吗?
13.失恋时,只有2种可能,要么你爱她她不爱你,或者相反.那么,当你爱的人不再爱你,或者从来没爱过你时.你没有遗憾,因为你失去的只是一个不爱你的人.
14.请不要欺骗善良的女孩.这个世界上,善良的女孩太少.
15.不能偏激的认为金钱万能,至少,金钱治不好艾滋病.
16.请一定要有自信.你就是一道风景,没必要在别人风景里面仰视.
17.受到再大的打击,只要生命还在,请相信每天的太阳都是新的.
18.爱情永远不可能是天平.你想在爱情里幸福就要舍得伤心.
19.如果你喜欢一个认为别人应该对她好的mm,请尽早放弃.没有人是应该对一个人好的.如果她不明白这个道理,也就是她根本不懂得珍惜.
20.不要因为寂寞而’找’gf,寂寞男人请要学会品味寂寞.请记住:即使寂寞,远方黑暗的夜空下,一定有人和你一样,寂寞的人不同,仰望的星空却是唯一.
21.任何事没有永远.也别问怎样才能永远.生活有很多无奈.请尽量充实自己,充实生活.请善待生活.
End.男人有很多无奈,生活很累但是因为生活才有意义.当你以为你一无所有时,你至少还有时间,时间能抚平一切创伤.所以请不要流泪.
Tuesday, April 04, 2006
Sunday, April 02, 2006
Linux Sux!!
Yup. After 2 yrs of using it, I cannot denied any longer.. Linux SuX!! it Sux big time.. how can it fight Vista when it come out? No way man..
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Wait a minute... wat? I am late?! No no... Is no joke. Ya.. No joke.. Erm.. okie.. It is still April Fools in US lei.. The server is located in US so... It is still April Fools ma! HAHA..
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Wait a minute... wat? I am late?! No no... Is no joke. Ya.. No joke.. Erm.. okie.. It is still April Fools in US lei.. The server is located in US so... It is still April Fools ma! HAHA..
Thursday, March 30, 2006
「假如」
「尼爾，我知道你不喜歡「假如」，你覺得那是假的，因為那不可能發生，所以不需要浪費時間去想所謂的「假如」，但是，「假如」有時候是必須的，那像是一種免費而且有效的藥，它用來治療某種程度的絕望。」
十年的你 － 藤井樹
十年的你 － 藤井樹
Wednesday, March 29, 2006
A video must watch for all Computing Student
A video must watch, state all the computing student's worry... Click here.
Sunday, March 26, 2006
My House.. Ha..
Based on your drawing and the 10 answers you gave this is a summary of your personality:
Your house tells the world that you ought to be a leader. You are a freedom lover and a strong person. You will avoid being alone and seek the company of others whenever possible. You love excitement and create it wherever you go. You are very tidy person. There's nothing wrong with that because you're pretty popular among friends. Your life is always full of changes.
You will avoid being alone and seek the company of others whenever possible. You love excitement and create it wherever you go. You have a strong personality and you like to command, influence and control people.
You added a flower into your drawing. The flower signifies that you long for love. It also safe to say that others don't see you as a flirt. You don't think much about yourself.
See my house.
Your house tells the world that you ought to be a leader. You are a freedom lover and a strong person. You will avoid being alone and seek the company of others whenever possible. You love excitement and create it wherever you go. You are very tidy person. There's nothing wrong with that because you're pretty popular among friends. Your life is always full of changes.
You will avoid being alone and seek the company of others whenever possible. You love excitement and create it wherever you go. You have a strong personality and you like to command, influence and control people.
You added a flower into your drawing. The flower signifies that you long for love. It also safe to say that others don't see you as a flirt. You don't think much about yourself.
See my house.
Saturday, March 25, 2006
Tuesday, March 21, 2006
Saturday, March 18, 2006
Missing Fingers..
OMG!! I realise i actually forgot my all time fav food!! Sushi!! I left out my Unagi Sushi.. I shall punish myself by eating more of it tomolo..
Thursday, March 16, 2006
MEME： 7 sins of food
I have been issued a MEME by Piccola... to write a 7 sins of food. Hmm... 7 lei.. I am a pig which eats everything in the world. To choose 7 out of all the wonderful food in the world, 有如要我在十只手指中，留下七只手指。。。 "^_^
but.. i still chop away my fingers.. and with one hand, im presenting u..
My 7 Sins of Food
ps: They are not organised in order of preference.
Finger 1: Creamy Pasta
I like pasta but I like pasta with cream or pan fry. Although i think that the orignal pasta is tomato based, but I still think pasta with cream is the best. Normally ppl dun like creamy stuff cos they will feel sick of it after half the plate but im quite ok with it. :) pig is always a pig. LOL. I particularly like creamy pasta from 2 resturants, Creamy Chicken from Pasta Mania and Chicken Mushroom Macaroni from Cafe Catel. but i must say, Pasta Mania standard is not consistance, Cafe Catel, the city hall branch is more consistance but the tampines one really hav to depends on the chef mood.
Creamy Chicken: Simply love the sause and the linguine. especially when the sause starts to cools down, very gd to goes with garlic bread. The sause has quite a lot of garlic in it, so those garlic haters, better dun drink the sause too much.
Chicken Mushroom Macaroni: Everything is nice.. Just eat it and falls for it. :D Thanks to SL for introducing me to it. *sob
Finger 2: Mee Pok
Next on the list, the fav noodle for most singaporeans, Mee Pok!! I have been having Mee Pok for Sunday breakfast for the past 5 - 10 years liao. I am very particular abt my Mee Pok. It cannot be undercook, overcook and too soggy. When add chilli, cannot put too much soup as base. AND fried pig oil is a must. Hack the "caloli", Mee Pok without 炸猪油 is not call Mee Pok! haha... No favourite store at the moment.. cos I still cook the best Mee Pok!! hoho..
Finger 3: Cheese Cake
Hmm.. After a main meal, how can we forget abt having desert? And one of my favourite is.... Cheese Cake!!! Had my first piece at Coffee Bean, many years ago.. and... im in luv.. ah.. but not all cheese cake is nice.. and coffee bean chicago cheese cake getting lousier.. I dun have any fav store at the moment and will be happy to just eat one nice cheese cake whenever i hav a chance. Is like 随缘。。 haha.. However.. there is one cheese cake that i really wan to try. That is Piccola's Blueberry Cheese cake. :D
Finger 4: 臭豆腐
Yes.. One of the sin is 臭豆腐!! Although it smells bad, it taste gd..... :D Actually it dun really smell like rubbish, it just smells a bit sourish. Eating 臭豆腐 is like eating Durian, 一彻只在一念之差。haha.. is all in the mind. just pop one into the mouth.. and u will love it. whenever i go taiwan, i will sure try the one there. but sadly my tourmates dun always like it, so cant eat much. if not i will hav to go out alone liao. haha. sg one cant really compare with overseas, cos it is tailor to local taste, a bit too bland. not nice. one should be sour + crispy + juicy.. yummy...
Finger 5: Steak
I am a meat eater and i like to eat beef.. the best is medium rare.. got blood better. yummy. . The resturant i like most so far is Phin's Steak House. Of course there is other steak that i like but so far i remember most is this one. Ah.. i remember there is this special steak i ate at outback be4. The texture is like mutton, u actually no need knife to eat it.. u can just peel it off.. wonder which part of cow is it.. they say is steak.. so i presume is a steak ba. Now i wish i have access to my own kitchen and start cooking my own steak. hmm..
Finger 6: 粿汁
My long time fav.. 粿汁.. wow.. im just amazed that u can actually eat every part of the pig lei... hmm... interesting.. actually not a lot of people like to eat animal's organs. Oh well, 各有各的口味。Actually eating organs is not healthy, tats y i try not to eat it tat often.. Cos i eat all types of organs.. pig organ, mutton organ and beef organ.. no fav store for now cos im a lazi pig.. lazi to go to the gd places to eat as all those gd 粿汁 is so far...... away.. mayb til i got my bike.. hehee...
Finger 7: Mutton Bryani
Ah... last but not least... Mutton Bryani... Mutton has to be soft and tender.. rice must be dry enough.. and the curry must be spicy... I like Muthu's Curry the most. I would want to eat it everyday.. but i still want to maintain below 100kg. if not i would be 0.1 ton already. "^_^
Alrite.. abv are the 7 fingers that i have keep.. Actually i really eat everything.. but i can eat the same type of food for half a year and wont get sick of it. If there's any recomendation, feel free to leave it in the comments. :D
ps: the last few food has lesser description because i have lesser fingers to type ma..
pps: wat is MEME?? hmm..
but.. i still chop away my fingers.. and with one hand, im presenting u..
My 7 Sins of Food
ps: They are not organised in order of preference.
Finger 1: Creamy Pasta
I like pasta but I like pasta with cream or pan fry. Although i think that the orignal pasta is tomato based, but I still think pasta with cream is the best. Normally ppl dun like creamy stuff cos they will feel sick of it after half the plate but im quite ok with it. :) pig is always a pig. LOL. I particularly like creamy pasta from 2 resturants, Creamy Chicken from Pasta Mania and Chicken Mushroom Macaroni from Cafe Catel. but i must say, Pasta Mania standard is not consistance, Cafe Catel, the city hall branch is more consistance but the tampines one really hav to depends on the chef mood.
Creamy Chicken: Simply love the sause and the linguine. especially when the sause starts to cools down, very gd to goes with garlic bread. The sause has quite a lot of garlic in it, so those garlic haters, better dun drink the sause too much.
Chicken Mushroom Macaroni: Everything is nice.. Just eat it and falls for it. :D Thanks to SL for introducing me to it. *sob
Finger 2: Mee Pok
Next on the list, the fav noodle for most singaporeans, Mee Pok!! I have been having Mee Pok for Sunday breakfast for the past 5 - 10 years liao. I am very particular abt my Mee Pok. It cannot be undercook, overcook and too soggy. When add chilli, cannot put too much soup as base. AND fried pig oil is a must. Hack the "caloli", Mee Pok without 炸猪油 is not call Mee Pok! haha... No favourite store at the moment.. cos I still cook the best Mee Pok!! hoho..
Finger 3: Cheese Cake
Hmm.. After a main meal, how can we forget abt having desert? And one of my favourite is.... Cheese Cake!!! Had my first piece at Coffee Bean, many years ago.. and... im in luv.. ah.. but not all cheese cake is nice.. and coffee bean chicago cheese cake getting lousier.. I dun have any fav store at the moment and will be happy to just eat one nice cheese cake whenever i hav a chance. Is like 随缘。。 haha.. However.. there is one cheese cake that i really wan to try. That is Piccola's Blueberry Cheese cake. :D
Finger 4: 臭豆腐
Yes.. One of the sin is 臭豆腐!! Although it smells bad, it taste gd..... :D Actually it dun really smell like rubbish, it just smells a bit sourish. Eating 臭豆腐 is like eating Durian, 一彻只在一念之差。haha.. is all in the mind. just pop one into the mouth.. and u will love it. whenever i go taiwan, i will sure try the one there. but sadly my tourmates dun always like it, so cant eat much. if not i will hav to go out alone liao. haha. sg one cant really compare with overseas, cos it is tailor to local taste, a bit too bland. not nice. one should be sour + crispy + juicy.. yummy...
Finger 5: Steak
I am a meat eater and i like to eat beef.. the best is medium rare.. got blood better. yummy. . The resturant i like most so far is Phin's Steak House. Of course there is other steak that i like but so far i remember most is this one. Ah.. i remember there is this special steak i ate at outback be4. The texture is like mutton, u actually no need knife to eat it.. u can just peel it off.. wonder which part of cow is it.. they say is steak.. so i presume is a steak ba. Now i wish i have access to my own kitchen and start cooking my own steak. hmm..
Finger 6: 粿汁
My long time fav.. 粿汁.. wow.. im just amazed that u can actually eat every part of the pig lei... hmm... interesting.. actually not a lot of people like to eat animal's organs. Oh well, 各有各的口味。Actually eating organs is not healthy, tats y i try not to eat it tat often.. Cos i eat all types of organs.. pig organ, mutton organ and beef organ.. no fav store for now cos im a lazi pig.. lazi to go to the gd places to eat as all those gd 粿汁 is so far...... away.. mayb til i got my bike.. hehee...
Finger 7: Mutton Bryani
Ah... last but not least... Mutton Bryani... Mutton has to be soft and tender.. rice must be dry enough.. and the curry must be spicy... I like Muthu's Curry the most. I would want to eat it everyday.. but i still want to maintain below 100kg. if not i would be 0.1 ton already. "^_^Alrite.. abv are the 7 fingers that i have keep.. Actually i really eat everything.. but i can eat the same type of food for half a year and wont get sick of it. If there's any recomendation, feel free to leave it in the comments. :D
ps: the last few food has lesser description because i have lesser fingers to type ma..
pps: wat is MEME?? hmm..
Wednesday, March 15, 2006
Hmm... Mi with white wings??!!
White Full Wings-Innocent and pure..kinda..you
enjoy chatting on the phone....eating
chocolate and writing love notes that you
never send..*Sigh* You are normally always in
love no matter what, you enjoy spending time
with your friends and going shopping with
them!
What Kind Of Angel Wings Would You Have? (Anime Pics)
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Monday, March 13, 2006
Meaningful post discovered.
Some post which i found from a friend's blog which is from someone else's blog that i found very meaningful. Worth a tot.
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In your life, you'll make note of a lot of people. Ones with whom you shared something special, ones who will always mean something. There's the one you first kissed, the one you first loved, the one you lost your virginity to, the one you put on a pedestal, the one you're with... and the one that got away.
Who is the one that got away? I guess it's the person with who everything was great, everything was perfect but the timing was just wrong. There was no fault in the person, there was no flaw in the chemistry, but the cards just didn't fall the right way, I suppose.
I believe in the fact that ending up with someone, finding a longtime partner that is, does not lie merely in the other person. I can actually argue that an equal part, or maybe even the greater part, has to do with the matter of timing. It has to do with you being ready to settle down and commit to someone in a way that goes beyond the little niceties of giddy romance.
How often have you gone through it without even realizing it? When you're not ready to commit in that mature manner, it doesn't matter who you're with, it just doesn't work. Small problems become big; inconsequentials become dealbreakers simply because you're not ready and it shows. It's not that you and the person you're with are no good; it's just that it's not yet right, and little things become the flashpoint of that fact.
Then one day you're ready. You really are. And when this happens, you'll be ready to settle down with someone. He or she may not be the most perfect, they might not be the brightest star of romance to ever have burned in your life, but it'll work because you're ready. It'll work because it's the right time and you'll make it work. And it'll make sense, it really will.
So that day comes when you're finally making sense of things, and you find yourself to be a different person. Things are different, your approach is different, you finally understand who you are and what you want, and you have become ready because the time has truly arrived. And mind you, there's no telling when this day will come. Hopefully you're single but you could be in a long-term relationship, you could be married with three kids, it doesn't matter. All you know is that you've changed, and for some reason, the one that got away, is the first person you think about.
You'll think about them because you'll wonder, "What if they were here today?" You'll wonder, "What if we were together now, with me as I am and not as I was?" That's what the one that got away is. The biggest "What if?" you'll have in your life.
If you're married, you'll just have to accept the fact that the one that got away, got away. Belive me, no matter how fairy tale you think your marriage is, this can happen to the best of us. But hopefully you're mature enough to realize that you're already with the one you're with and this is just another test of your commitment, one which will just strengthen your marriage when you get past it. Sure, you'll think about him/her every so often but it's alright. It's never nice to live with a "might have been," but it happens.
Maybe the one that got away is the one who's already married. In which case it's the same thing. You just have to accept and know that your memories of that person will probably bring a nice smile to your lips in the future when you're old and gray and reminiscing.
But if neither of that is the case, then it's different. What do you do if ti's not yet too late? Simple... find him, find her. Because the very existence of a "one that got away" means that you'll always wonder, what if you got that one?
Ask him out to coffee, ask her out to a movie, it doesn't matter if you've dropped in from out of nowhere. You'd be surprised, you might be "the one that got away" as well for the person who is your "the one that got away".
You might drop in from out of nowhere and it won't make a difference. If the timing is finally right, it'll all just fall into place somehow and you know, I'm thinking, it would be a great feeling, in the end, to be able to say to someone, "Hey you, you're the one that almost got away."
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In your life, you'll make note of a lot of people. Ones with whom you shared something special, ones who will always mean something. There's the one you first kissed, the one you first loved, the one you lost your virginity to, the one you put on a pedestal, the one you're with... and the one that got away.
Who is the one that got away? I guess it's the person with who everything was great, everything was perfect but the timing was just wrong. There was no fault in the person, there was no flaw in the chemistry, but the cards just didn't fall the right way, I suppose.
I believe in the fact that ending up with someone, finding a longtime partner that is, does not lie merely in the other person. I can actually argue that an equal part, or maybe even the greater part, has to do with the matter of timing. It has to do with you being ready to settle down and commit to someone in a way that goes beyond the little niceties of giddy romance.
How often have you gone through it without even realizing it? When you're not ready to commit in that mature manner, it doesn't matter who you're with, it just doesn't work. Small problems become big; inconsequentials become dealbreakers simply because you're not ready and it shows. It's not that you and the person you're with are no good; it's just that it's not yet right, and little things become the flashpoint of that fact.
Then one day you're ready. You really are. And when this happens, you'll be ready to settle down with someone. He or she may not be the most perfect, they might not be the brightest star of romance to ever have burned in your life, but it'll work because you're ready. It'll work because it's the right time and you'll make it work. And it'll make sense, it really will.
So that day comes when you're finally making sense of things, and you find yourself to be a different person. Things are different, your approach is different, you finally understand who you are and what you want, and you have become ready because the time has truly arrived. And mind you, there's no telling when this day will come. Hopefully you're single but you could be in a long-term relationship, you could be married with three kids, it doesn't matter. All you know is that you've changed, and for some reason, the one that got away, is the first person you think about.
You'll think about them because you'll wonder, "What if they were here today?" You'll wonder, "What if we were together now, with me as I am and not as I was?" That's what the one that got away is. The biggest "What if?" you'll have in your life.
If you're married, you'll just have to accept the fact that the one that got away, got away. Belive me, no matter how fairy tale you think your marriage is, this can happen to the best of us. But hopefully you're mature enough to realize that you're already with the one you're with and this is just another test of your commitment, one which will just strengthen your marriage when you get past it. Sure, you'll think about him/her every so often but it's alright. It's never nice to live with a "might have been," but it happens.
Maybe the one that got away is the one who's already married. In which case it's the same thing. You just have to accept and know that your memories of that person will probably bring a nice smile to your lips in the future when you're old and gray and reminiscing.
But if neither of that is the case, then it's different. What do you do if ti's not yet too late? Simple... find him, find her. Because the very existence of a "one that got away" means that you'll always wonder, what if you got that one?
Ask him out to coffee, ask her out to a movie, it doesn't matter if you've dropped in from out of nowhere. You'd be surprised, you might be "the one that got away" as well for the person who is your "the one that got away".
You might drop in from out of nowhere and it won't make a difference. If the timing is finally right, it'll all just fall into place somehow and you know, I'm thinking, it would be a great feeling, in the end, to be able to say to someone, "Hey you, you're the one that almost got away."
Friday, March 10, 2006
a quiet and cunning demon.....
You shelter a Water
Demon
Very quiet and cunning, the water demon is one of
the cruelest and most destructive demons once
provoqued : he awaits in the shadows the
opportunate moment to strike and then, either
with the force of a raging sea or the
sharpness of a knife, he stabs the most
sensible part of the target. Although he will
not wake up if unecessary. Then he will show
a calm and gentle image of himself.
What demon sleeps inside you ?
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Thursday, March 09, 2006
Wednesday, March 08, 2006
friends..
you're ross...even though you whine a lot, your
friends can see through it to the genuinely
intelligent and caring person you are on the
inside...usually.
which Friends character are you?
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Saturday, March 04, 2006
Tuesday, February 28, 2006
Something written in 1998 ...
PS: this needs some fixing after google upgrade the system. Til i got the time....
Romance , Friendship and True Love calculator
This is a Romance , Friendship and True Love calculator.
Romance means how high the percentage a romantic feeling is developed between u two.
True Love means how high the percentage of real love is developed between u two.
Friendship means how high the percentage will two of u become friends.
To keep on calculating a name, select the lock on the name so that the name will not be clear.
Romance , Friendship and True Love calculator
This is a Romance , Friendship and True Love calculator.
Romance means how high the percentage a romantic feeling is developed between u two.
True Love means how high the percentage of real love is developed between u two.
Friendship means how high the percentage will two of u become friends.
To keep on calculating a name, select the lock on the name so that the name will not be clear.
Monday, February 27, 2006
Sunday, February 26, 2006
Data Recovery.
This is a notice to whoever is reading this. Anyone who has accidentally deleted their data from their harddisk, camera or memory card, and want to recover it, can give me a call or leave me a mesage. Although no 100% guaranty, at least got 80%, it worth a try. :)
Spoilt harddisk can be recovered also.
Spoilt harddisk can be recovered also.
Saturday, February 25, 2006
Time.
3 yrs for some is long but once u pass it, it seems so recent.
2 months is short but for those in it, it seems so long.
5 days maybe short but it is the longest time it is allowed to be sored.
26 yrs on this planet is long but the journey stills has a long way to go.
Time.. something u can measure but cannot be defined.
2 months is short but for those in it, it seems so long.
5 days maybe short but it is the longest time it is allowed to be sored.
26 yrs on this planet is long but the journey stills has a long way to go.
Time.. something u can measure but cannot be defined.
Thursday, February 23, 2006
Formating...
Memories cannot be deleted.
After formating, there will still be traces left behind.
Waiting to be recovered.
At least they are being formated to give way for new memories.
-- sh.
After formating, there will still be traces left behind.
Waiting to be recovered.
At least they are being formated to give way for new memories.
-- sh.
3 yrs after kissing pink IC
It has been 3 yrs after I kiss my pink ic. time flies til i cant recgonise myself. i gain abt 20kg, got a degree, still with the same old job and no relationship so far. is it an achievement? no idea. life still goes on. after soring for a few days, is time to move on. as ppl say, there will be a better catch next time. but the question is, when is the next time?
Friday, February 17, 2006
New home.. new start...
The blog has moved from friendster to here so as to reduce spam emails to my fellows 126 friends on friendster..
A new home.. A new start..
A new home.. A new start..
Thursday, February 16, 2006
Tuesday, February 14, 2006
Monday, February 13, 2006
Wednesday, February 08, 2006
Sunday, February 05, 2006
I am really a duck!
You Are A: Duck!
Found in many lakes and ponds, ducks are a common site the world over. Known for their famous quack, ducks tend to congregate in flocks or go off on their own in pairs. As a duck, you may seem friendly at times but will not hesitate to bite if someone is bothering you. Your love for travel and your ability to swim are some reasons why you are a duck.You were almost a: Bear Cub or a Frog
You are least like a: Groundhog or a PuppyCute Animals Quiz
Wednesday, February 01, 2006
Tuesday, January 24, 2006
A Naked Seducer
| Your Seduction Style: Au Natural |
 You rank up there with your seduction skills, though you might not know it. That's because you're a natural at seduction. You don't realize your power! The root of your natural seduction power: your innocence and optimism. You're the type of person who happily plays around and creates a unique little world. Little do you know that your personal paradise is so appealing that it sucks people in. You find joy in everything - so is it any surprise that people find joy in you? You bring back the inner child in everyone you meet with your sincere and spontaneous ways. Your childlike (but not childish) behavior also inspires others to care for you. As a result, those who you befriend and date tend to be incredibly loyal to you. |
Friday, January 20, 2006
MEME of 100
Took from Cruz Site..
MEME of 100- Cows! Need to do two times.. stupid friendster..
1 Birthdate?
22 Jun
2 Place of birth?
Singapore.
3 Blood type?
O+
4 Height?
168cm since 1995
5 Weight?
Close to 0.1 ton
6 Shoe size?
9
7 Work? Study?
Work
8 Childhood nickname?
Old man cant remember...
9 Average hours you sleep in a day?
Not a lot definately..
10 Time you go to bed?
After 4am..
11 Any siblings?
A younger bro
12 Eyesight – short-sighted, long-sighted or perfect?
Short
13 What languages do you speak?
English, Mandarin and Lousy Hokkien.
14 What languages would you like to speak?
Japanese!
15 Nickname on Messenger?
Duck> [Insert statement of the day]
16 What do you collect?
Comics
17 Model of handphone you are using?
Motorola E680i
18 What is on your shopping list?
Too many to list..
19 Favourite t-shirt brand?
Any t-shirt will do..
20 Favourite cut of jeans?
Baggy
21 Favourite fashion designer?
Mi no fashionable.. so no designer..
22 Favourite clothing label?
Mi no label my clothes...
23 Favourite shoe label?
Shoe also no label..
24 Favourite bag label?
Bag must label one mei?
25 Most dominant colour in your wardrobe?
Black
26 Most worn-pair of shoes?
Bata Leather Shoe for work..
27 Favourite shampoo?
As long can clean gd liao..
28 Favourite conditioner?
My hair no so gd life..
29 Favourite bath product?
Dun smell like shit can liao..
30 Favourite facial product?
H2O from Bedok Reservior..
31 Favourite cosmetics?
Natural is beauty..
32 Favourite art movement?
Next....
33 Favourite artist?
Cant apperiate art..
34 Favourite gallery?
Din step into one be4..
35 Favourite cold drink?
Coca Cola.
36 Favourite hot drink?
Coffee.
37 Favourite flavour of ice-cream?
Ben & Jerry’s
38 Favourite cuisine?
Japanese
39 Favourite sandwich?
Club sandwich from 7-11.
40 Favourite cake?
Cheesecake!!!
41 Favourite chocolate?
No preference...
42 Favourite fast food?
Carls Jr..
43 Favourite sushi?
Anything with Unagi
44 Favourite breakfast?
Ya Kun Roti and Kopi
45 Spaghetti – tomato, cream or pesto sauce?
Cream
46 Beef – rare, medium rare, medium, well-done?
Medium rare.. see a bit blood better..
47 Restaurant you frequent most?
No preference.
48 Best dining experience?
Cant remember....
49 Worst dining experience?
A gathering at a pub...
50 Favourite book?
檞寄生
51 Favourite movie?
心动
52 Favourite artist writer?
痞子蔡
53 Favourite actor?
No preference...
54 Favourite actress?
No preference...
55 Favourite record?
孙燕姿 － 天黑黑
56 Favourite singer?
孙燕姿
57 Favourite band?
No preference
58 Favourite lyrics?
A lot.. 夜曲 the most recent..
59 Favourite TV show?
CNA
60 Favourite newspapers?
ST
61 Favourite magazine?
Linux Format Mag..
62 Favourite flower?
As long as it looks nice..
63 Favourite animal?
Cat cos i got one..
64 Favourite country?
Taiwan!!
65 Favourite street (in your country)?
No preference...
66 Favourite street (overseas)?
No preferene....
67 Favourite sport?
Swimming but lazi to move butt now..
68 Scariest movie?
Dun believe in pay to scare the shit out of myself..
69 Funniest movie?
No preference
70 Favourite leisure activity?
Reading Comic, reading technical books, MJ, rotting in front of PC
71 Favourite public transport?
MRT
72 Favourite weather?
Rainy days.. the best is grey sky + drizzling but no thunder..
73 Dream honeymoon destination?
Rome..
74 Computer you use?
DIY. AMD + Debian Gnu/Linux
75 Wallpaper on your computer?
Wallpaper from Kde-look
76 Screen saver on your computer?
Photo slide
77 How many hours on the internet a day?
24 hr - 4 hr of sleep - 2 hr of travel - 2 hr of meal - X hr of misc
78 Favourite blog?
1. Cruz Teng, Xiaxue
2. Friend's
3. Any blogs that fullfill my responsibility as an online stalker
79 Favourite news site?
Slashdot
80 Favourite site?
Google
81 First pet?
Banmo the cat
82 Favourite cartoon from childhood?
Transformer (Prime Master Series)
83 Favourite toy from childhood?
Paper and plasticin...
84 What makes you smile?
Anything that make me laugh..
85 What makes you cry?
Quite hard unless touching story. See #50
86 Which celebrity would you like to be?
None.
87 What colour would you be if you are a crayon?
Black.
88 If you can go back in time, which period would you want to be in?
Back to the cave man days..
89 If you can have your own business, what would you venture into?
Cafe that makes gd Irish Coffee
90 What TV program would you like to go on?
None...
91 How satisfied are you with your current situation?
Alrite la.. just except for 1 thing..
92 What would you rather be doing if you have a choice?
I will be doing what I will be doing..
93 The most important thing that has happened in your life?
Learn how to type?
94 What do you think you’ll be doing 5 years down the road?
Should be still in IT line..
95 Most desired now?
For those who knoes... Sh...
96 Biggest worry now?
Cannot pass my bike license.. I will die the Japanese way..
97 Most unforgettable incident?
Man cannot always live in the past..
98 New year resolution?
See previous post..
99 Your motto in life?
Life starts from 1 and 0.
100 Who do you want to answer “100 Things About Me”?
Anyone who willing to do this stupidly long post.. Im not bored.. Just bo liao.. :D
MEME of 100- Cows! Need to do two times.. stupid friendster..
1 Birthdate?
22 Jun
2 Place of birth?
Singapore.
3 Blood type?
O+
4 Height?
168cm since 1995
5 Weight?
Close to 0.1 ton
6 Shoe size?
9
7 Work? Study?
Work
8 Childhood nickname?
Old man cant remember...
9 Average hours you sleep in a day?
Not a lot definately..
10 Time you go to bed?
After 4am..
11 Any siblings?
A younger bro
12 Eyesight – short-sighted, long-sighted or perfect?
Short
13 What languages do you speak?
English, Mandarin and Lousy Hokkien.
14 What languages would you like to speak?
Japanese!
15 Nickname on Messenger?
Duck> [Insert statement of the day]
16 What do you collect?
Comics
17 Model of handphone you are using?
Motorola E680i
18 What is on your shopping list?
Too many to list..
19 Favourite t-shirt brand?
Any t-shirt will do..
20 Favourite cut of jeans?
Baggy
21 Favourite fashion designer?
Mi no fashionable.. so no designer..
22 Favourite clothing label?
Mi no label my clothes...
23 Favourite shoe label?
Shoe also no label..
24 Favourite bag label?
Bag must label one mei?
25 Most dominant colour in your wardrobe?
Black
26 Most worn-pair of shoes?
Bata Leather Shoe for work..
27 Favourite shampoo?
As long can clean gd liao..
28 Favourite conditioner?
My hair no so gd life..
29 Favourite bath product?
Dun smell like shit can liao..
30 Favourite facial product?
H2O from Bedok Reservior..
31 Favourite cosmetics?
Natural is beauty..
32 Favourite art movement?
Next....
33 Favourite artist?
Cant apperiate art..
34 Favourite gallery?
Din step into one be4..
35 Favourite cold drink?
Coca Cola.
36 Favourite hot drink?
Coffee.
37 Favourite flavour of ice-cream?
Ben & Jerry’s
38 Favourite cuisine?
Japanese
39 Favourite sandwich?
Club sandwich from 7-11.
40 Favourite cake?
Cheesecake!!!
41 Favourite chocolate?
No preference...
42 Favourite fast food?
Carls Jr..
43 Favourite sushi?
Anything with Unagi
44 Favourite breakfast?
Ya Kun Roti and Kopi
45 Spaghetti – tomato, cream or pesto sauce?
Cream
46 Beef – rare, medium rare, medium, well-done?
Medium rare.. see a bit blood better..
47 Restaurant you frequent most?
No preference.
48 Best dining experience?
Cant remember....
49 Worst dining experience?
A gathering at a pub...
50 Favourite book?
檞寄生
51 Favourite movie?
心动
52 Favourite artist writer?
痞子蔡
53 Favourite actor?
No preference...
54 Favourite actress?
No preference...
55 Favourite record?
孙燕姿 － 天黑黑
56 Favourite singer?
孙燕姿
57 Favourite band?
No preference
58 Favourite lyrics?
A lot.. 夜曲 the most recent..
59 Favourite TV show?
CNA
60 Favourite newspapers?
ST
61 Favourite magazine?
Linux Format Mag..
62 Favourite flower?
As long as it looks nice..
63 Favourite animal?
Cat cos i got one..
64 Favourite country?
Taiwan!!
65 Favourite street (in your country)?
No preference...
66 Favourite street (overseas)?
No preferene....
67 Favourite sport?
Swimming but lazi to move butt now..
68 Scariest movie?
Dun believe in pay to scare the shit out of myself..
69 Funniest movie?
No preference
70 Favourite leisure activity?
Reading Comic, reading technical books, MJ, rotting in front of PC
71 Favourite public transport?
MRT
72 Favourite weather?
Rainy days.. the best is grey sky + drizzling but no thunder..
73 Dream honeymoon destination?
Rome..
74 Computer you use?
DIY. AMD + Debian Gnu/Linux
75 Wallpaper on your computer?
Wallpaper from Kde-look
76 Screen saver on your computer?
Photo slide
77 How many hours on the internet a day?
24 hr - 4 hr of sleep - 2 hr of travel - 2 hr of meal - X hr of misc
78 Favourite blog?
1. Cruz Teng, Xiaxue
2. Friend's
3. Any blogs that fullfill my responsibility as an online stalker
79 Favourite news site?
Slashdot
80 Favourite site?
81 First pet?
Banmo the cat
82 Favourite cartoon from childhood?
Transformer (Prime Master Series)
83 Favourite toy from childhood?
Paper and plasticin...
84 What makes you smile?
Anything that make me laugh..
85 What makes you cry?
Quite hard unless touching story. See #50
86 Which celebrity would you like to be?
None.
87 What colour would you be if you are a crayon?
Black.
88 If you can go back in time, which period would you want to be in?
Back to the cave man days..
89 If you can have your own business, what would you venture into?
Cafe that makes gd Irish Coffee
90 What TV program would you like to go on?
None...
91 How satisfied are you with your current situation?
Alrite la.. just except for 1 thing..
92 What would you rather be doing if you have a choice?
I will be doing what I will be doing..
93 The most important thing that has happened in your life?
Learn how to type?
94 What do you think you’ll be doing 5 years down the road?
Should be still in IT line..
95 Most desired now?
For those who knoes... Sh...
96 Biggest worry now?
Cannot pass my bike license.. I will die the Japanese way..
97 Most unforgettable incident?
Man cannot always live in the past..
98 New year resolution?
See previous post..
99 Your motto in life?
Life starts from 1 and 0.
100 Who do you want to answer “100 Things About Me”?
Anyone who willing to do this stupidly long post.. Im not bored.. Just bo liao.. :D
Thursday, January 19, 2006
My Rated Life... Got so bad mei?
| This Is My Life, Rated | |
| Life: |  5.4 |
| Mind: | 5.2 |
| Body: |  5.7 |
| Spirit: | 5.5 |
| Friends/Family: |  2.9 |
| Love: |  0.7 |
| Finance: |  6.8 |
| Take the Rate My Life Quiz | |
Saturday, January 14, 2006
How is your inner child?
| Your Inner Child Is Sad |
 You're a very sensitive soul. You haven't grown that thick skin that most adults have. Easily hurt, you tend to retreat to your comfort zone. You don't let many people in - unless you've trusted them for a long time. |
Monday, January 02, 2006
Sunday, January 01, 2006
Packing my collections...
I was packing my collection and decided to show part of my collection to the world.. Firstly, im showing my first set of comics..
It has been with me for the past 13 yrs or more..
And this shelf is contains 50% of my collection..
girls like to hav a walk in wardrobe for clothes, i wan a walk in wardrobe for comics. lol..
I haven count how many series i have but mayb will do so one of these days...
It has been with me for the past 13 yrs or more..
And this shelf is contains 50% of my collection..
girls like to hav a walk in wardrobe for clothes, i wan a walk in wardrobe for comics. lol..
I haven count how many series i have but mayb will do so one of these days...
Friday, December 30, 2005
End of 2005
The year has come to an end. What an "exciting" year.
It has been a lobo year for me. I haven been very buzy. I spend my days as it is. I began to slack. lol. tats where the lobo part comes in.
It has been a lazi year for me. I have not been taking up any moonlight as i used to be and even do free jobs. lol. after the major setback last year, i tent to be careful this time round. but im become too lazi. lazi to get my bike license, lazi to get my car license, lazi to execise, lazi to even clean my rm. hmm...
It has been a messy year for me. I have not been tidy up my rm, my table is full of bills and comic, so my comics are Poor things, haven got time to arrange them. My life style was in a mess too, has been drinking almost every fortnightly wkend for continuing for few mths then. Hav been sleeping late at nite til now, 4am and wake up late to go to work. But finish work very late too! lol..
It has been a overseas year for me. I have been to bangkok, taipei and sentosa... Hav fun at these places. Hope to go more places next yr. *Wallet crying..
It has been a spendthrift year for me. I have bought a lot of electronics. Wireless keyboard and mouse, my zaurus, E680i, dvd burner, speakers and also oversea trips, outing, KTV!!, ... and so on.. *In memory of the notes who died, let us...
It has been a KTV year for me. Sing and Sing and Sing.. lol.. Im the next J + JJ = J cube.
It has been a Non-Fullfilling year for me. Have lots of things planned to do but never finish. *Sighz...
It has been a Super Fast year for me. Time has passed without me knowing and now it is the end of 2005.
Nevertheless, this year has come to an end. Good bye 2005, hello 2006. May this year be a more fullfilling, energetic, organised, money-earning, tidy, .....yata yata.. year. Hopefully a brand new yr will have a brand new start. I should be playing MJ when the clock strike 12, thus Happy new year to all my friends! :D
Friday, December 23, 2005
Saturday, December 03, 2005
Tuesday, November 15, 2005
What Does Your Birth Date Mean?
| Your Birthdate: June 22 |
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Wednesday, November 09, 2005
Sesame Street character!
| The Count You scored 58% Organization, 31% abstract, and 40% extroverted! |
| This test measured 3 variables. First, this test measured how organized you are. Some muppets like Cookie Monster make big messes, while others like Bert are quite anal about things being clean. Second, this test measured if you prefer a concrete or an abstract viewpoint. For the purposes of this test, concrete people are considered to gravitate more to mathematical and logical approaches, whereas abstract people are more the dreamers and artistic type. Third, this test measured if you are more of an introvert or an extrovert. By definition, an introvert concentrates more on herself and an extrovert focuses more on others. In this test an introvert was somebody that either tends to spend more time alone or thinks more about herself. You are mostly organized, more concrete, and both introverted and extroverted. Here is why are you The Count. You are both somewhat organized. You have a good idea where you put things and you probably keep your place reasonably clean. You aren't totally obsessed with neatness though. The Count is obsessive compulsive and needs to always count what he has. But hey, if he was really organized, he wouldn't have to count at all. The other possible characters are If you enjoyed this test, I would love the feedback! Also if you want to tell me your favorite Sesame Street character, I can total them up and post them here. Perhaps your choice will win! |
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My test tracked 3 variables How you compared to other people your age and gender:
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| Link: The Your SESAME STREET Persona Test written by greencowsgomoo on Ok Cupid, home of the 32-Type Dating Test |
Friday, November 04, 2005
Wednesday, November 02, 2005
Saturday, October 22, 2005
What Age Do You Act?
***You Are 24 Years Old***
Under 12: You are a kid at heart. You still have an optimistic life view - and you look at the world with awe.
13-19: You are a teenager at heart. You question authority and are still trying to find your place in this world.
20-29: You are a twentysomething at heart. You feel excited about what's to come... love, work, and new experiences.
30-39: You are a thirtysomething at heart. You've had a taste of success and true love, but you want more!
40+: You are a mature adult. You've been through most of the ups and downs of life already. Now you get to sit back and relax.
The Three Question Personality Test
***Your Personality Is***
Guardian (SJ)
You are sensible, down to earth, and goal oriented.
Bottom line, you are good at playing by the rules.
You tend to be dominant - and you are a natural leader.
You are interested in rules and order. Morals are important to you.
A hard worker, you give your all at whatever you do.
You're very serious, and people often tell you to lighten up.
In love, you tend to take things carefully and slowly.
At work, you are suited to almost any career - but you excel in leadership positions.
With others, you tend to be polite and formal.
As far as looks go, you are traditionally attractive. You take good care of yourself.
On weekends, you tend to like to do organized activities. In fact, you often organize them!
The Three Question Personality Test
Three Question Personality Test
Saturday, October 01, 2005
Outlaw.....
- You Are The Outlaw
"Sure, I'll do it. My way."
Just because you do not conform to the same laws
and rules as everyone else does not mean that
you are a bad guy. You travel your own path,
separate from those around you, with your own
reasons for doing what you do. Because of this
and your own nature, it goes without saying
that you are generally misunderstood. That does
not matter much, though, as people love you for
being who you are. You are pretty well set in
your ways and have no real intention of
changing. This can come across as a flicker of
arrogance if your not careful. You do what is
right for you, and God help anyone who stands
in your way.
Which Classic Story Role Do You Play?
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Thursday, September 22, 2005
Saturday, August 06, 2005
Saturday, July 16, 2005
Not for the weak heart
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Saturday, July 09, 2005
Long Blog
After much complain from varies humans, I decided to write a very bery long blog. For those with no patient or time, please jump to the end of the entry now. For those decided to stay on, here it goes.
As ppl knoe, im just a boring person. leading a boring life, except for some excitement injected by some friends and collegues, other then that, is plain boring life. Of course while you are bored and online and noone to talk to in the middle of the nite, you then to feel bored and whileporn sites are not allowed there are no more websites and blogs to visit/entertaining me, I decided to do an unoffical blog. Y unofficial, think abt it. :P Did i mention I am entertained by blogs? hmm.. as i lead a boring life, except for some excitement injected by some friends and collegues, i tend to read other blog to find out if i did miss out something out in this world, well in actual fact, im just bored and hope their humour can entertain my brain-dead brain. Well all thanks to the first person who started blogging, (i tried to find out who the fk he/she is but then google fail me this time, will try again later), i have my entertainment in the middle of the nite without calling to my friends and wake them up and tell them im bored doing work and entertain me. i used to hav someone to talk to while i doing my work.. but then tats was donkey yrs ago.. anyway a bit of history abt blog, im really impress with the person who started this concept, he din invent blog actually, he just repackage it. long long time ago.... in the days where im more lighter then now, abt the 97++? personal website are very popular and humans (including me) like to create websites and those were the days where geocities, forunecity and so on gets popular like shit and tats where i learn all my HTML skill. Imagine my first website done using notepad. God.. i still have the print out copy of them.. "^_^ anyway there are ppl also updating their website every now and then abt their lives, photo and so onz and of course.. theres no such things as online html editor, image album scripts.. a lot of things are done manually... pure html or with some "WONDERFUL" mouseover effect of javascript. and of coruse it is damn troublesome and greeks like me will do it.. or try to earn a living by corning ppl to do up their website and pay me for it. :P and then... after yrs i retire from the homepage thingy... someone told me tats something call blog.. ah... i was surprise it comes from a it idiot person... so i was pretty surprise that ppl like her can do such things.. cool.. and then realise that some GOD has package the whole concept of personal website to something call BLOG. how wonderful... y i din think of tat. shit.. another chance gone.. anyway lets clap for this wonderful person, although we duno which part of the world he is in, ah-li-ka-tok.
Am i done yet? nope... still long man... now compiling my stupid Gentoo boz.. so bery free ah.. multitasking.. reading ppl blog.. reading friendster... reading linux document.. writing blog.. searching who the fk started the blog thing.. Who says onli girls can multitask. I am multitasking all the time.. i always read comic while shiting, watch tv while using computer(to0o0 many task to list down),day dreaming, listening to radio while taking mrt, reading comic listening to mp3 while walking down to interchange... hmm... either the report is wrong or im not a guy? oh well.. still waiting for the compile to finsih.. it suppose to be running faster and.. ok.. i stop here.. nxt... ah.. as i was saying.. friendster.. friendster is a very powerful concept also.. although i dun understand y they say jsp sux and wans to move on to php and ofcourse it did increase the speed a lot.. i still think they hav a suxy java programmer. anyway, practically u can find anyone arnd ur age group who hangs in the net in it. tats y i cna find so.... many ppl or read abt so... many ppl whom i tot is no longer exists in this world.. and those whom i just know and also those i tot i duno.. it also leads to some strange hobbies, like
1. browsing for chio bu
I got friend who actually search the users group and find out all the chio buz in the list.. and make contact with them? hmm.. no wonder some of them rather put 80 yrs old or married or even private so that the flies wont go find them..
2. linking the world
starting from one friend, u start clicking on one of the friend and then clikc on the friend's friend's... all the way til the user is not in singapore.. and then all the way til, u get back singapore.. just link joining the dots.
3. using profile as alt to blogging
well.. tats ppl who uses the profile to say how r they and also wat the latest things they do. wat movie they watch.. bla bla.. hmm....
4. Head hunter
yes.. head hunt for gf.. i think mostly guys will do it.. dun think girls will.. i heard there's ppl who msg any girl think fit and ask to make friend. wonder how many ppl succed.. mayb i should try ah..
well.. there mayb more things as im still a well turtle.. yes. turtle.. cos i duno how to spelltortoise tortise.
Still compiling.. man.. anyway incase u all dun know, there's a easier way to install linux, but i just backside itchy and choose the most man fan way to install.. if anyone wans to
1. abandon bill gates
2. join the real world
3. stop worry if policy will knock ur door for priated windoze
4. take the red pill
feel free to approach me.. ur friendly customer penguin will help you through all the process .. :) anyway what should we talk abt now? wat? abt me? i say in the first paragraph liao.. mi a boring person.. because i cant do wat god can do, so im still human. (jimmy borrow ur line for a while). just to clarify a few things. im straight although single for donkey yrs, i dun always do work all the time but computer is integrated into my life. i sux at ang mo not because i bery bad abt it but i just dun give a damn. i sleep for 4 hrs min everyday but it doesnt mean i dun love to sleep. i love to eat, not because im always hungry but it is my hobbies and hobbies are meant to do all the time as it gives u pleasure. :P i dun actually hate bill gate and ms tat much. but their policies sometimes really gets to my nerves and linux is better. :) i always wear the same clothes because i hate shopping for my own clothes. cos the one i like either too ex or cant fit. i wont wan to change myself to fit the clothe and i cant change the clothe to fit myself thus.. no new clothes. wat else... tats for now.. will add if i remember...
ok man.. i hope u all still alive.. will let the compiling run over nite. mr chow just make an appointment with me and im getting late. for those who skip all the way to here. u din miss much. for all those read all the stuff, tx for reading. i hav unoffically blog for 1 yrs worth and thus i may not add new entry agian. but then.. humans are make up of millions of diff cells and thus unpredictable. :D
As ppl knoe, im just a boring person. leading a boring life, except for some excitement injected by some friends and collegues, other then that, is plain boring life. Of course while you are bored and online and noone to talk to in the middle of the nite, you then to feel bored and while
Am i done yet? nope... still long man... now compiling my stupid Gentoo boz.. so bery free ah.. multitasking.. reading ppl blog.. reading friendster... reading linux document.. writing blog.. searching who the fk started the blog thing.. Who says onli girls can multitask. I am multitasking all the time.. i always read comic while shiting, watch tv while using computer(to0o0 many task to list down),day dreaming, listening to radio while taking mrt, reading comic listening to mp3 while walking down to interchange... hmm... either the report is wrong or im not a guy? oh well.. still waiting for the compile to finsih.. it suppose to be running faster and.. ok.. i stop here.. nxt... ah.. as i was saying.. friendster.. friendster is a very powerful concept also.. although i dun understand y they say jsp sux and wans to move on to php and ofcourse it did increase the speed a lot.. i still think they hav a suxy java programmer. anyway, practically u can find anyone arnd ur age group who hangs in the net in it. tats y i cna find so.... many ppl or read abt so... many ppl whom i tot is no longer exists in this world.. and those whom i just know and also those i tot i duno.. it also leads to some strange hobbies, like
1. browsing for chio bu
I got friend who actually search the users group and find out all the chio buz in the list.. and make contact with them? hmm.. no wonder some of them rather put 80 yrs old or married or even private so that the flies wont go find them..
2. linking the world
starting from one friend, u start clicking on one of the friend and then clikc on the friend's friend's... all the way til the user is not in singapore.. and then all the way til, u get back singapore.. just link joining the dots.
3. using profile as alt to blogging
well.. tats ppl who uses the profile to say how r they and also wat the latest things they do. wat movie they watch.. bla bla.. hmm....
4. Head hunter
yes.. head hunt for gf.. i think mostly guys will do it.. dun think girls will.. i heard there's ppl who msg any girl think fit and ask to make friend. wonder how many ppl succed.. mayb i should try ah..
well.. there mayb more things as im still a well turtle.. yes. turtle.. cos i duno how to spell
Still compiling.. man.. anyway incase u all dun know, there's a easier way to install linux, but i just backside itchy and choose the most man fan way to install.. if anyone wans to
1. abandon bill gates
2. join the real world
3. stop worry if policy will knock ur door for priated windoze
4. take the red pill
feel free to approach me.. ur friendly customer penguin will help you through all the process .. :) anyway what should we talk abt now? wat? abt me? i say in the first paragraph liao.. mi a boring person.. because i cant do wat god can do, so im still human. (jimmy borrow ur line for a while). just to clarify a few things. im straight although single for donkey yrs, i dun always do work all the time but computer is integrated into my life. i sux at ang mo not because i bery bad abt it but i just dun give a damn. i sleep for 4 hrs min everyday but it doesnt mean i dun love to sleep. i love to eat, not because im always hungry but it is my hobbies and hobbies are meant to do all the time as it gives u pleasure. :P i dun actually hate bill gate and ms tat much. but their policies sometimes really gets to my nerves and linux is better. :) i always wear the same clothes because i hate shopping for my own clothes. cos the one i like either too ex or cant fit. i wont wan to change myself to fit the clothe and i cant change the clothe to fit myself thus.. no new clothes. wat else... tats for now.. will add if i remember...
ok man.. i hope u all still alive.. will let the compiling run over nite. mr chow just make an appointment with me and im getting late. for those who skip all the way to here. u din miss much. for all those read all the stuff, tx for reading. i hav unoffically blog for 1 yrs worth and thus i may not add new entry agian. but then.. humans are make up of millions of diff cells and thus unpredictable. :D
Monday, July 04, 2005
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